"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What should I do SERIOUSLY!!??

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Badmannaz

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okay here it goes..

I go up with my parents to see my brother last week at his university...and my parents decide to leave me there so my brother can take me home when he came home for a couple days...me n my brother end up kicking it with his friends..it turns out i actually gained the interest of one girl HB8.5 very nice!!
well she's been txtn me tellin me things this and that....Now she's the type who get's hit on alot....she told me she didn't want a boyfriend b/c guys are scum...last guy really pissed her off..and that was a couple months ago...Now my brother wants me to come back up there and chill this weekend and so i told her me and her could chill now here is the situation broken down

-still interest level but not as high right now (on both parts)
-she's protestant and has been goin to church lately


Idk i have enough game to do something but seriously i don't know what to do?? should i try to go all the way...or what? what would you do? it's just i don't want to go up there and do something and she not like me anymore if i don't call for one day or something...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The Bad Ass Canadian

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hey man... piece of advice.

Relax.

Do whatever you want to and don't worry about pis$ing her off. Spend time with her and have fun. enjoy the "now" and don't worry if she hates you for some stupid reason, afterwards. If she's like that, then better left alone, I say.. What does she expect, a diamond? You live far away, I presume so it's sorta out of your control, isn't it?

Stop worrying about it, man... seriously. It's not a big deal and don't think she hasn't had "weekend flings" before. All girls have.. most have had many.
 
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Your status as "visitor" puts you in a good position to get some action this weekend.

1) You will not be around for a long period of time, so making you wait for sex is pointless.

2) It can be kept on the DL, so she does not have to worry about being labeled a "slut."

This is why vacation sex is easy. Enjoy the ride, and like the guy above me said, relax. No need to overanalyze anything... just go in there, do what you do best, and if it happens it happens.
 
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Dont listen to what women say, but only listen to what they do. so act like she never said it. its like my gf said she didnt want sex but she kept grabbing my **** and trying to stick it inside of her.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You mention she's Protestant. Is that important? Are you from West Belfast?

Anyway, she seems interested enough. Agree with TBAC, do what you want. If you think you have enough game, you do.
 
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