"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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what should I do? proceed with caution?

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Met this girl not too long ago. Took her out out an a date and we had a good time. The issue is I do like damn near all the initiating contact. Plus, the last few weeks she's just been completely MIA.One week she just didn't respond at all. After I reached out again and she did respond but eventually stopped responding. I get a text from her a week later apologizing for being distant I guess and she had some personal things going on and how she would still like to see me.

Okay, should I just jump right back in like nothing happened? Proceed with caution? Fall back a bit?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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How many times have you asked her out since the first date? Try two times max, then the ball is in her court and it's time to move on. No self respecting guy should be hounding a girl to go on a date. She's either not interested or playing a stupid game and needs to grow up, either way her loss.
 
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Yewki said:
How many times have you asked her out since the first date? Try two times max, then the ball is in her court and it's time to move on. No self respecting guy should be hounding a girl to go on a date. She's either not interested or playing a stupid game and needs to grow up, either way her loss.
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I haven't. I haven't really had a chance to haha. I mean I appreciate her addressing what was going on and mentioning that she wanted to see me so I took that as a good sign. So don't fall back right now?
 
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One week she just didn't respond at all. After I reached out again and she did respond but eventually stopped responding.
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Sounds like you had at least two opportunities to ask her out on another date, but you resorted to trying to have a text conversation. I'm not saying that's necessarily why she's unresponsive, but you're wasting your time.

This is what you do. Text her bluntly that you want to see her again and when you're free. If she ignores you, her loss move on. If she declines but shows interest, you can try one more time if you like. If she declines twice, you walk. No questions asked.
 
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Her "preferred" guy stopped dealing with her so now she went back to you as the fallback. She may have some interest, but only until another guy she prefers more comes into the picture. If you can get her out make sure you bang her that night because you might not get another chance.

Good luck.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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