"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Public_eNemy

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Hello guys..
I'm 18 and I need your opinion on this specific situation... its happening quite a lot lately.
When I'm at parties, it's quite easy for me to pick up girls.. they really grab me and let me hold them as if we were making out, but they avoid the kiss for some time... Only later they finally go for the kiss..
I mean, It's totally obvious they want something, but they for some reason just delay the kiss, like turning their heads until later on...
Anybody knows what I could be doing wrong? Or is it just normal and I should wait a little more?
hehee
thanks
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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ASD my friend, ASD. They want the kiss, but they don't want to feel like a slut.

Try doing something to 'sweep them off their feet' before going in for the kiss. Something to really put them in the moment.
 
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Way to quote me plec haha. But just as he said, women want to be caught in the moment, so you have to make the time prior to the kiss extremely romantic, even orgasmic to them.
 
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Yeah mate :p. It's interesting how you've managed to give the same advice to two different people in one nite. Although strangely enough for fairly different reasons.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ASD=Anti Slut Defense. i would suggest triangular gazing and if she doesnt flinch or turn her head then go in for the kiss.
 
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