"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What should I do on this situation?

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Public_eNemy

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Hello guys..
I'm 18 and I need your opinion on this specific situation... its happening quite a lot lately.
When I'm at parties, it's quite easy for me to pick up girls.. they really grab me and let me hold them as if we were making out, but they avoid the kiss for some time... Only later they finally go for the kiss..
I mean, It's totally obvious they want something, but they for some reason just delay the kiss, like turning their heads until later on...
Anybody knows what I could be doing wrong? Or is it just normal and I should wait a little more?
hehee
thanks
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ASD my friend, ASD. They want the kiss, but they don't want to feel like a slut.

Try doing something to 'sweep them off their feet' before going in for the kiss. Something to really put them in the moment.
 
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Way to quote me plec haha. But just as he said, women want to be caught in the moment, so you have to make the time prior to the kiss extremely romantic, even orgasmic to them.
 
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Yeah mate :p. It's interesting how you've managed to give the same advice to two different people in one nite. Although strangely enough for fairly different reasons.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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ASD=Anti Slut Defense. i would suggest triangular gazing and if she doesnt flinch or turn her head then go in for the kiss.
 
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