"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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What should I do here?

timmylivingalie

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I been talking to this hb8 chick late teens to early 20's for awhile now she works at a store I go to and we banter back in forth and have very good rapport and she seems very attracted to me. She even get's mad if I go through another cashiers line. Today the timing felt right to ask her on a date but she turned me down. But she was still showing ioi's after that. Should I ignore her and move on? keep bantering and try to build more attraction and comfort and ask her again in a couple weeks. Or try to make her jealous?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Peaks&Valleys

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Cashiers, waitresses, bartenders, hair stylists, receptionists, etc. They're all a confusing bunch. They're paid to be nice to you BUT you're someone special....right?

It could be if you caught this chick out in town she'd be all over you. I feel, with these dames, when they're at work, there's some secret inbred code that makes them automatically turn a guy down....even if she was hoping for you to ask her out.

She's at work, which means you come to her, she'll always be there. It doesn't mean she doesn't like you. But she's in an environment where she feels she needs to be professional....plus, you'll come back around, she knows this, she's going to make you work for it.

When you're at a bar or club and you meet a girl (who's not working) it's now or never. There usually isn't any second chances.

I wouldn't give up, just make sure you play it cool next time, don't be all butt hurt or wierded out.
 

Skyy.

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Peaks&Valleys said:
Cashiers, waitresses, bartenders, hair stylists, receptionists, etc. They're all a confusing bunch. They're paid to be nice to you BUT you're someone special....right?
Not only that, they are in "careers"where fvcktards constantly hit on them. Their ego and entitlement are through the roof, so they have the freedom to pick and choose. OP, you didn't make the cut so stop living a lie.
 
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