"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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YoDJYouMyDJ

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alright. I meet this girl last Saturday and end up hooking up with her. so i send this girl a text early yesterday that says "hey. this is XYZ from saturday. remember me?" and no response! I find it hard to believe she;s just blowing me off b/c she was literally all over me on Saturday. If don't get a response from her by Thursday should I just call her and be like "hey this is XYZ from Saturday. we should get together tomorrow night"? Should I call/text her today if I don't get a response? What do you think of that? thx
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Yeah bro, just call her up once more. She has your # right? Her mobile would have caller ID(they all do) so there is no excuse on her part, she knows you called.

Sounds like she just wanted a one night stand out of you. Drunk party broads are always hungering for kock on Fri/Sat nights.
 
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Ya' - I'd call her once and then leave it at that if you don't get a reply.
 
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When will people ever learn?

Never - ever, ever, ever send a girl that you just meet a text message.

Don't be a pvssy. Pick up the phone and call her.

If you can't wait till you can.

Text Message is for kids not DJ's.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Woo- I'm in the clear. She texted me TWICE today. In the span of about 5 minutes. maybe she just doesn't use her phone that often? The problem is I don't want to get stuck in stupid cell phone banter. She replied with "yeah, hey." and then 5 minutes later "what's up?" I figure I should give her some kind of vage response like "the usual" or "taking care of business" or something like that and then I'll call her tomorrow. Or, should I just be like "not much. we should hang out this weekend"?
 
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