“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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What should i do/change to become approachable?

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it always seem's that no girls ever approach me even though i'm one sexy *****.

I mean not to be modest but i'm a good looking guy with an amazing amount of confidence and show it off alot....i figure it might be because i'm too "outta there league" and they think they don't stand a chance with me.

that sounds arrogant...but i'm just happy with my body and like to make it known :D
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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If you have "an amazing amount of confidence" why are you not approaching them?

Men approach.....women get approached.

In my experience confident people never wait for life to happen to them.....they go out and make it happen.

EDIT:Arrogance isn't too much self confidence.....it's a lack of self confidence
 
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You sound like my brother! :)

My bros very good looking but lacks confidence.

Either your overestimating your confidence or you need to go out more where there are women abound. Or just say Hi.

Should do the trick. Another thing? Whats your bodyfat %?
 
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Originally posted by LoveBOT
it always seem's that no girls ever approach me even though i'm one sexy *****.

I mean not to be modest but i'm a good looking guy with an amazing amount of confidence and show it off alot....i figure it might be because i'm too "outta there league" and they think they don't stand a chance with me.

that sounds arrogant...but i'm just happy with my body and like to make it known :D
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i guess you answered your own question. women hardly approach men but will give you subtle signs as comming as close to you. i dont think women will just come at you like whats up baby.. except they are young.. mainly younger girls approach me. and im sick of it. and also how you act matters if you are goodlooking and act like you dont know you are or care then thats better in my own experience. some guys are really funny i saw this one dude tonite who thought he was all that and he walked like he was on a catwalk.. hes whole presence was so canned and fake that girls spotted this and laugh at him.. dont over do all that im the king bull**** . dont be fake and if you wana be fake do it well.
that poor dude embarassed himself, maybe he was a member of this site haha.. i know some dudes take this **** too far
 
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Just be laid back. Chill out. Don't feel the need to make a witticism at every oppurtunity to hide your lack of confidence.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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