There's a girl who I was friends with and something bad happened in between us. I realised she started to pull away; she blocked my no., didn't reply on WhatsApp and unfollowed on insta.
After many months of me trying to get her back she said OK one day suddenly, but after that things were not like before i.e.,she didn't reply like before.
So, I asked her are things really good in between us? She said yes but I didn't feel like it. So, I told her that if things are really good in between us and if u trust me then wear the earrings which I'll give it to you on your birthday. She didn't wear it.
At that moment I realised again that she is going away from me, so I told her the way I felt about her, " I have feelings for you". I told her that only if she agreed to meet and talk ,but she backed away on that day and didn't come.
She said she had some important work to do, but later I got to know from her best friend that they went for a coffee( told by the best friend himself to me when I asked him.)
This is the same best friend who she sent screenshots of our msges to him ( this also the best friend told me.)
The name of best friend is Alex.
Earlier when that girl and I used to talk I asked her "Are u in a relationship with Alex?"
Her reply" Whattttt????
Never in my dreams
"
(Quick history - Alex had proposed to her and she said no.)
But the question is how come even after that Alex becomes her best friend and she doesn't even want to talk to me??
Continuing: After I told her that I have feelings for her, "I love you" I thought things might soften up, but it didn't.
She said she didn't want to talk to me and said " From now on we are strangers. From now on just pretend that you don't know me".
All this while I had been talking to her another good friend Adam.Adam drinks and smokes.
( Note: The name of the girl I'm talking abt is "Sabrina".
Adam also had a crush on her ,but later he started liking another girl Khushi.)
Adam and I were talking abt my situation and he had been supporting abt it. He helped me and talked to me.
One day I told Sabrina that u r talking to everyone including ppl who drink and smoke. She told this to Adam. He thought I was talking about him.
So, when I went to talk to him like we used to we broke into a fight and Adam told Sabrina that I am bothering him.
After that Sabrina texts me " Why are you so clingy and pathetic"
Alex was with her that day and he also send me a voicemail and msges through Sabrina's phone.
Sabrina msged me "you are not at all in a position to guilt trip me or my friends, from now don't bother me or my friends, especially Adam".
She blocked me on WhatsApp afterwards.
After I told Sabrina that I love her I said "Sabrina can we meet and talk bcz this is not a joke for me. I don't know whether u want to talk to me afterwards or not and I'll respect your decision. But if this is the last time we are going to talk then can we at least meet and talk?"
When I told her this she said yes, but after the exams. I agreed. But after the exams she said she doesn't want to meet bcz "nothing is left from both sides to say".
I said atleast think abt it and let this time pass and don't make the decision hastily. She said "I don't want to associate with you in anyway anymore" and went with Alex for coffee.
After some time we got on the same train coincidentally.
Earlier in the train we used to exchange seats with other passengers so that we could sit together, but this time when I asked she told the passenger beside her not to move.
After we got off the train she wore her airpods even though she knew I was talking to her. She was ignoring me.
Even while going home she told the auto driver not to take any other passenger(me).
After I got home I called her from my friend's phone bcz she had blocked me and asked "Sabrina why are you behaving this way?"
She said "I'm going to continue behaving this way"
I replied "If this is how your behaviour is going to be and u can't understand and respect the emotion that I feel for u, then even I don't want you anymore".
After that 1year has passed and we haven't talked.
What should I do brother??
If she comes back to me do I :
a) completely ignore her without saying anything or
b) tell her "go and **** Alex or better, do a threesome with Alex and Adam, I bet that's your biggest fantasy"( just so she knows how much she hurt me and that I don't care whatever she does now).
What should I do now?
After many months of me trying to get her back she said OK one day suddenly, but after that things were not like before i.e.,she didn't reply like before.
So, I asked her are things really good in between us? She said yes but I didn't feel like it. So, I told her that if things are really good in between us and if u trust me then wear the earrings which I'll give it to you on your birthday. She didn't wear it.
At that moment I realised again that she is going away from me, so I told her the way I felt about her, " I have feelings for you". I told her that only if she agreed to meet and talk ,but she backed away on that day and didn't come.
She said she had some important work to do, but later I got to know from her best friend that they went for a coffee( told by the best friend himself to me when I asked him.)
This is the same best friend who she sent screenshots of our msges to him ( this also the best friend told me.)
The name of best friend is Alex.
Earlier when that girl and I used to talk I asked her "Are u in a relationship with Alex?"
Her reply" Whattttt????
Never in my dreams
"
(Quick history - Alex had proposed to her and she said no.)
But the question is how come even after that Alex becomes her best friend and she doesn't even want to talk to me??
Continuing: After I told her that I have feelings for her, "I love you" I thought things might soften up, but it didn't.
She said she didn't want to talk to me and said " From now on we are strangers. From now on just pretend that you don't know me".
All this while I had been talking to her another good friend Adam.Adam drinks and smokes.
( Note: The name of the girl I'm talking abt is "Sabrina".
Adam also had a crush on her ,but later he started liking another girl Khushi.)
Adam and I were talking abt my situation and he had been supporting abt it. He helped me and talked to me.
One day I told Sabrina that u r talking to everyone including ppl who drink and smoke. She told this to Adam. He thought I was talking about him.
So, when I went to talk to him like we used to we broke into a fight and Adam told Sabrina that I am bothering him.
After that Sabrina texts me " Why are you so clingy and pathetic"
Alex was with her that day and he also send me a voicemail and msges through Sabrina's phone.
Sabrina msged me "you are not at all in a position to guilt trip me or my friends, from now don't bother me or my friends, especially Adam".
She blocked me on WhatsApp afterwards.
After I told Sabrina that I love her I said "Sabrina can we meet and talk bcz this is not a joke for me. I don't know whether u want to talk to me afterwards or not and I'll respect your decision. But if this is the last time we are going to talk then can we at least meet and talk?"
When I told her this she said yes, but after the exams. I agreed. But after the exams she said she doesn't want to meet bcz "nothing is left from both sides to say".
I said atleast think abt it and let this time pass and don't make the decision hastily. She said "I don't want to associate with you in anyway anymore" and went with Alex for coffee.
After some time we got on the same train coincidentally.
Earlier in the train we used to exchange seats with other passengers so that we could sit together, but this time when I asked she told the passenger beside her not to move.
After we got off the train she wore her airpods even though she knew I was talking to her. She was ignoring me.
Even while going home she told the auto driver not to take any other passenger(me).
After I got home I called her from my friend's phone bcz she had blocked me and asked "Sabrina why are you behaving this way?"
She said "I'm going to continue behaving this way"
I replied "If this is how your behaviour is going to be and u can't understand and respect the emotion that I feel for u, then even I don't want you anymore".
After that 1year has passed and we haven't talked.
What should I do brother??
If she comes back to me do I :
a) completely ignore her without saying anything or
b) tell her "go and **** Alex or better, do a threesome with Alex and Adam, I bet that's your biggest fantasy"( just so she knows how much she hurt me and that I don't care whatever she does now).
What should I do now?
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