Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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What should a DJ eat for breakfast? Help

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I mean, sometimes I think I should have eggs or cereal, but then I think, what should a DJ eat for breakfast. And then other times when I'm on the fone with my mom, and I wanna say something, I'm just not sure what a DJ should say. Because I really need to do everything a DJ should do and say, and like then I'll be a REAL man. So can someone just make a list from A to Z of everything a DJ should do including what hand to wipe my @ss with, then I wont have to keep making posts asking what a DJ should do. Unless making posts is something a DJ should do. Uhh, it's all so confusing.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Ohhhh pleaassseee!:crazy: You guys are starting to treat this like a religion. Listen brotha, being a DJ is not about having the perfect james bond catch phases or eating a certain foods. And it's certainly not the absence of imperfection. It's a lifestyle and the whole purpose of it is to have CONFIDENCE in yourself. Enough confidence in yourself in which you wont have to worry about what others think, what to eat or what to say to your mother on the phone. Your making this 10000x complex than what it is.:kick:

First: You must know that you want in your life (ambitions, goals, etc)

Second: Gain confidence in who you are and except yourself for who you are. If you want to change somethings about yourself, cool but don't do it for your friends or that girl down the street. If your gonna change then DO IT FOR YOU!

Third: Quit trying to be a DJ!!! Thats whats making you do all of this overthinking and what is making your paranoid over everything you do in your life. Just BE YOURSELF man. Everyone is different. That's the beauty of life. Everything would be boring if everyone had the same personality ya know? Life is whole lot easily when you start doing these things.

Fourth: Live life, be happy, and everything will take care of itself:cool:
 
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rkc09,
I think he was being facetious, making the point that wannabee DJ's overthink everything.

However, he elicited a good "in a nutshell" post from you. Sometimes it's great to read posts like yours as a quick, easily digested gut check. Thanks.
 
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Atom Smasher said:
rkc09,
I think he was being facetious, making the point that wannabee DJ's overthink everything.

However, he elicited a good "in a nutshell" post from you. Sometimes it's great to read posts like yours as a quick, easily digested gut check. Thanks.
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No problem man. The pleasure all mines. Hopefully he was being facetious. But with all the silly threads being posted now-a-days, it's kinda normal to be seeing questions like this being asked lol.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Mistic,

Forget about what a DJ eats for breakfast...The key is:--Confidence and a smile..

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Wait, so you guys saying i'm an AFC for making this post?? **** I knew I shouldn't have wrote this. Stupid stupid. God why cant I just be a real DJ and not have to think about every single things I should do. And it's the weekend again and I just got another pimple. It seems like every weekend I always get a pimple and I cant go out. So what kind of pimple cream works best on DJ's. I dont want to get wrong thing again. And oh yeah, what kinds of acne cream does a DJ supposed to use? :cool:
 
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What should a DJ eat for breakfast?

pvssy.
 
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Mistic said:
Wait, so you guys saying i'm an AFC for making this post?? **** I knew I shouldn't have wrote this. Stupid stupid. God why cant I just be a real DJ and not have to think about every single things I should do. And it's the weekend again and I just got another pimple. It seems like every weekend I always get a pimple and I cant go out. So what kind of pimple cream works best on DJ's. I dont want to get wrong thing again. And oh yeah, what kinds of acne cream does a DJ supposed to use? :cool:
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Okay yeah this guy is being sarcastic
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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This thread is a good wake-up ****-slap to most guys, including me. I find myself relying on this site as a crutch too much lately.
 
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Fresh squeezed Grapefruit juice on an empty stomach is the healthiest breakfast - it doesn't trigger any stomach acid. Helps you lose abdominal fat. Melon is the only other such food.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Expending more energy than you take in helps to lose abdominal fat, not Grapefruit Juice.
 
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lmao on a serious note, nothing makes me feel more like champ after eating a huge breakfast like say 6 whole eggs, huge bowl of oatmeal with milk and honey, glass of juice, some greek yogurt and hell sometimes even some bacon. :)
 
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My breakfast consisted of a Pabst blue ribbon, left-over nachos from Denny's, and a black and mild. Thats how I know I had fun last night. Maybe even too much fun.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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