"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What sacrifices do I have to make to work in the nightlife industry?

drakeisfire

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I currently have a great 9 to 5 which tops out at about 45 hours a week and the money is not too bad. The industry is also one which I enjoy and the work is fulfilling in itself, not much to whine about.

My thing is I have always wanted to work in the nightlife industry, ideally as a bartender. After looking around, most bars do not do interviews on weekends and they do not hire for weekend shifts if you are part-time because those go to the most senior workers. It is a tough spot.

What sacrifices would I have to make to be a bartender or work at a top notch nightclub that draws in hot girls and the party people?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Von

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1) You have to accept to give up day life :p
2) You'll only date and social around the nightlife industry
3) You have to work on the weekends (Thursday to sunday)
4) You might become deaf from all the music
5) They have their own hierarchy (busboy are minions, Bartender are the knight,bouncers are the tower, manager is King and take the first bang)
 
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