"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What sacrifices do I have to make to work in the nightlife industry?

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I currently have a great 9 to 5 which tops out at about 45 hours a week and the money is not too bad. The industry is also one which I enjoy and the work is fulfilling in itself, not much to whine about.

My thing is I have always wanted to work in the nightlife industry, ideally as a bartender. After looking around, most bars do not do interviews on weekends and they do not hire for weekend shifts if you are part-time because those go to the most senior workers. It is a tough spot.

What sacrifices would I have to make to be a bartender or work at a top notch nightclub that draws in hot girls and the party people?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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1) You have to accept to give up day life :p
2) You'll only date and social around the nightlife industry
3) You have to work on the weekends (Thursday to sunday)
4) You might become deaf from all the music
5) They have their own hierarchy (busboy are minions, Bartender are the knight,bouncers are the tower, manager is King and take the first bang)
 
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