I'd relax with the kino. Just high-five a lot. I don't go out of my way to touch her. If it happens, that's great. If not, I'm not going to force it. I don't buy into the Kino game much. I think you should escalate the physical contact when it feels comfortable to do so. When you concentrate too much on anything, it shows.
If you want, turn the touch up IMMEDIATELY. I remember in Vegas, I met a young girl down by the pool. I didn't touch her much besides a few high-fives here and there. We made plans to meet up later and when we did, as soon as I saw her, I scooped her up off of her feet and spun her around with a huge hug. From there no touching I did was a surprise.