Can you elaborate more on this. Are you actually seeing progress meeting your local women from your youtube channel, compared to using Tinder or methods of meeting women there in the Philippeans?
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What role do YOU play nowadays for women ? Provider, protector, performer or puppet?
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Once you start a family, you are to some extent beta-provider. This is valid for all guys with children (whether fit or not, whether rich or not).
That is unless you are a degenerate that puts every cost, weight and time on woman in raising your offspring.
There is also no reason for believing your SMV raises each year you are single (as it is a sum of your health, physical attractiveness - both affected by age - as well as your status and amount of resources/assets). There is also no "common" SMV level - for one chick you will be forever 3/10 in spite of your level of success or money etc. (due to various personal preferences) for other you will be 7/10 or higher even if jobless at particular time. For sure however you can forget about successfully dating 20y old females if you are +40 years old guy for LTRs unless you fancy gold-diggers or sugar babies - at some point (prolly around 20y old age difference) relationship is based purely on economical safety net factor (this applies to SEA-maxxing as well...).
That is unless you are a degenerate that puts every cost, weight and time on woman in raising your offspring.
There is also no reason for believing your SMV raises each year you are single (as it is a sum of your health, physical attractiveness - both affected by age - as well as your status and amount of resources/assets). There is also no "common" SMV level - for one chick you will be forever 3/10 in spite of your level of success or money etc. (due to various personal preferences) for other you will be 7/10 or higher even if jobless at particular time. For sure however you can forget about successfully dating 20y old females if you are +40 years old guy for LTRs unless you fancy gold-diggers or sugar babies - at some point (prolly around 20y old age difference) relationship is based purely on economical safety net factor (this applies to SEA-maxxing as well...).
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FlexpertHamilton
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I've been a mix of all of them at different times in my life. What I can say is that the one I'm the LEAST is a provider.
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Provider and puppet are least desirable.
Provider used to be desirable in the USA until women entered the workforce in large numbers. The last generation of males who were at least somewhat appreciated as providers were Baby Boomers and it was the first 1/2 to 2/3rd of the generation who would have experienced more of that.
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I can't say you're wrong, but the feeling here in Italy is quite different.
Once women reach around 25, they start looking for a "provider"someone with resources. Many are focused on starting a family.
Then, once that desire is fulfilled and the children are born, give it another 2 or 3 years and you’ll often start seeing the first divorces or separation,with child support following soon after.
So, if you're a man between 30 and 50 and you're thinking about building a family, be prepared to play the provider role. But do it with your eyes open.
You need to be financially stable, mentally strong, and have your own place.
https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/fail-forward.284205/
My cousin was a great provider. He had a beautiful relationship from age 25 to 35.
After they got married and had their second child, she started exploring other options and cheated on him with a coworker. They're now separated.
He had to leave the house they shared (and for which he was paying the mortgage), because he couldn’t afford to both support the kids and keep the home.
Now he lives in a small studio apartment, and she rents a separate place.
He still has his social life and mental strength,but he lacks the first two pillars: financial stability and a home.
This is why I encourage every man to go through his “provider phase” consciously, but never become a doormat.
Keep all of this in mind.
There are only two outcomes:
– If she’s truly for you, she’ll stay.
– If she’s not, then it was all just a performance to fulfill her biological goals.
Accept it, and move forward.
Once women reach around 25, they start looking for a "provider"someone with resources. Many are focused on starting a family.
Then, once that desire is fulfilled and the children are born, give it another 2 or 3 years and you’ll often start seeing the first divorces or separation,with child support following soon after.
So, if you're a man between 30 and 50 and you're thinking about building a family, be prepared to play the provider role. But do it with your eyes open.
You need to be financially stable, mentally strong, and have your own place.
https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/fail-forward.284205/
My cousin was a great provider. He had a beautiful relationship from age 25 to 35.
After they got married and had their second child, she started exploring other options and cheated on him with a coworker. They're now separated.
He had to leave the house they shared (and for which he was paying the mortgage), because he couldn’t afford to both support the kids and keep the home.
Now he lives in a small studio apartment, and she rents a separate place.
He still has his social life and mental strength,but he lacks the first two pillars: financial stability and a home.
This is why I encourage every man to go through his “provider phase” consciously, but never become a doormat.
Keep all of this in mind.
There are only two outcomes:
– If she’s truly for you, she’ll stay.
– If she’s not, then it was all just a performance to fulfill her biological goals.
Accept it, and move forward.