"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
What redflags did you ignore?
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- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
- She really liked to drink.
-Divorced twice.
Honestly though, I was a bit lonely in a new city so knowingly overlooked these things. Once things got better for me, I started having A LOT of issues with her.
Those are three Red Flags. Huge. At
Least you moved on.
Tattoos
Obsessed with famous people
Daddy issues
Travels often to party with friends she meets online but won't hang out with friends in her everyday life
Women who can't maintain friendships (never ending new friend of the week)
Her longest relationship was 9 months
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
you will be put in a mental asylum if you try and talk about it openly, biggest problem in the world totally ignored by schools /doctors/ society.
the girls in my daughters year with no dad. Theyre behaviour is chalk and cheese, compared to fathered kids, plus they have weird habits, and little A.W tricks already at the age of 13..
