"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
What redflags did you ignore?
- Thread starter manfrombelow
- Start date
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
- She really liked to drink.
-Divorced twice.
Honestly though, I was a bit lonely in a new city so knowingly overlooked these things. Once things got better for me, I started having A LOT of issues with her.
Those are three Red Flags. Huge. At
Least you moved on.
Tattoos
Obsessed with famous people
Daddy issues
Travels often to party with friends she meets online but won't hang out with friends in her everyday life
Women who can't maintain friendships (never ending new friend of the week)
Her longest relationship was 9 months
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
you will be put in a mental asylum if you try and talk about it openly, biggest problem in the world totally ignored by schools /doctors/ society.
the girls in my daughters year with no dad. Theyre behaviour is chalk and cheese, compared to fathered kids, plus they have weird habits, and little A.W tricks already at the age of 13..
