What Red Flags just have to be experienced in a man's DJ journey?

[Robert28]

Get burned really badly by the friendzone.

This happened to me twice in my life. What’s funny is they both came around after I legit moved on and stopped liking them, but by then I wasn’t interested at all. I wasn’t even attracted to them anymore once I moved on. One still hits me up and I haven’t seen her in over a year and she’s constantly asking to hangout, she never did that when I liked her.

 

[Robert28]

When a woman shows fake interest in the beginning and wants to move 100mph. Like she wants to cram months of dating into the first two weeks. Anytime I meet some over eager woman now who pulls that crap I run for the hills because I know she will suddenly lose interest after a few weeks.

 

[pipeman84]

“Learn from the mistakes of others. You can't live long enough to make them all yourself.” - Eleanor Roosevelt

I don't think a DJ has to personally experience any red flags just as a weightlifter doesn't have to experience teared muscles or destroyed joints in his journey to develop a healthy and good looking physique.
Just adhering to a couple basic, common sense rules such as don't get involved with promiscuous women or with those with mental health issues (that's a common theme nowadays, going to therapy is glorified and seen as a virtue) should be enough IMO.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Appreciation of her after s*x leading to her leaving you.

I would have girls stay overnight and f*ck/cuddle with them all night. I would come out super tired the next day but I thought it was worth it. Then they would leave me after 1-3 times. Afterwards I started kicking them out 5 minutes after sex (with the advice of Heartiste), and BOOM! they were begging to stay with me. Like grasping as hard as they could onto my body as I threw myself off the bed with my strength. Then I would maintain frame, tell them some reason, and kick them out. As soon as I started doing that, I got great and frequent s*x.

And better sleep

 

[BillyPilgrim]

As others have said, avoiding fake high interest. If the woman isn't both genuinely curious about your personal life *and* willing to be sexually flirtatious with you, she isn't high interest.