funketekun
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
What race are you?
- Thread starter Rint
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
nvictor
Senior Don Juan
Half Donatello, half Michelangelo 
Charm&Style
Master Don Juan
persian
:nervous:
:nervous:
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
THE_ADDMAN
Master Don Juan
my race? ADDMAN :rockon:
also, English and Canadian
(My dad was born in england, I was born in Canada)
also, English and Canadian
(My dad was born in england, I was born in Canada)
~attrACTION~
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Ditto. Nice to see you back CharmCharm&Style said:
Still most people tell me I look Spanish or Italian. I don't look like the typical Middle-Eastern person. Last time I remember someone trying to guess anything about me, they asked if I was Jewish.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Mr. Unique
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Peach.
Dayum itz jee
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CrunchyNut
Don Juan
Race? Im the London marathon.
Actually Im half english half american. I see myself as english though, Ive lived here all my life!
Actually Im half english half american. I see myself as english though, Ive lived here all my life!
What's with these guys saying their race is English, or American, or whatever? That does not tell race. Hell, Englishmen and Americans come in all races: black, white, hispanic, asian, arab, native-american, etc. All you guys that said Englishman, or Canadian, American, etc, just said your nationality, the nation you come from. Not race.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
dap
Senior Don Juan
Italian American
dap
Senior Don Juan
"All you guys that said Englishman, or Canadian, American, etc, just said your nationality, the nation you come from. Not race."
The question should be posed as this to avoid confusion: "What ethnicity are you?"
The question should be posed as this to avoid confusion: "What ethnicity are you?"
Rebound Material
Master Don Juan
YEA, SO GET IT RIGHT!!dap said:
Im Protoss btw.
qweretyuiopas
Master Don Juan
lolMr. Unique said:
I have your color in my crayon box. I color all the white people with that color. I can almost stay inside the lines too, Ill get it someday though.
Im mixed
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.