funketekun
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chinese
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
What race are you?
- Thread starter Rint
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
nvictor
Senior Don Juan
Half Donatello, half Michelangelo 
Charm&Style
Master Don Juan
persian
:nervous:
:nervous:
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
THE_ADDMAN
Master Don Juan
my race? ADDMAN :rockon:
also, English and Canadian
(My dad was born in england, I was born in Canada)
also, English and Canadian
(My dad was born in england, I was born in Canada)
~attrACTION~
Banned
Ditto. Nice to see you back CharmCharm&Style said:
Still most people tell me I look Spanish or Italian. I don't look like the typical Middle-Eastern person. Last time I remember someone trying to guess anything about me, they asked if I was Jewish.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Mr. Unique
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Peach.
Dayum itz jee
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asian
CrunchyNut
Don Juan
Race? Im the London marathon.
Actually Im half english half american. I see myself as english though, Ive lived here all my life!
Actually Im half english half american. I see myself as english though, Ive lived here all my life!
What's with these guys saying their race is English, or American, or whatever? That does not tell race. Hell, Englishmen and Americans come in all races: black, white, hispanic, asian, arab, native-american, etc. All you guys that said Englishman, or Canadian, American, etc, just said your nationality, the nation you come from. Not race.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
dap
Senior Don Juan
Italian American
dap
Senior Don Juan
"All you guys that said Englishman, or Canadian, American, etc, just said your nationality, the nation you come from. Not race."
The question should be posed as this to avoid confusion: "What ethnicity are you?"
The question should be posed as this to avoid confusion: "What ethnicity are you?"
Rebound Material
Master Don Juan
YEA, SO GET IT RIGHT!!dap said:
Im Protoss btw.
qweretyuiopas
Master Don Juan
lolMr. Unique said:
I have your color in my crayon box. I color all the white people with that color. I can almost stay inside the lines too, Ill get it someday though.
Im mixed
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.