"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What questions do you ask

Legend

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hello

I was wondering, what are some of the questions you guys use to find out more about the girl you are interested in. I don’t mean questions about her job, or school, etc. I mean heart to heart stuff. Questions to differ you from any other guy she meets and talks too.

In other words what are some of the questions you find yourself asking to get her comfortable around you?

I think i lost one and i want to learn from my mistake. She always complained that i didn’t ask her enough questions about herself. She would always be saying...don’t you want to know anything about me?

A little background with this one..... I met her at my local gym and things seemed to grow pretty fast. I kind of pulled back because school is starting up. So for the next 6 months, i may or may not see or talk to her do to the fact we both are in different schools, about 4 hours apart. Do i just let the summer love go? We left on friendly terms.....but she seemed kind of on the distant side. I also think she may be a sunshine girl.

Any input would be appreciated.

Thank you

-John
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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mrRuckus

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Originally posted by Legend
hello

I was wondering, what are some of the questions you guys use to find out more about the girl you are interested in. I don’t mean questions about her job, or school, etc. I mean heart to heart stuff. Questions to differ you from any other guy she meets and talks too.


"i hate the fact that my d1ck is so large no girl will have anal with me..." Pout a little then to show your sensitive side and that you care about her feelings say: "how does that make you feel?"
 

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I don't think you not asking questions about her was the problem.

Talking to her *about* her is what you should've done more. She wouldn't think you didn't want know her if you did that.

That way she will always have something to talk about since women love to blab on and on and on and on and on....
 
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