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What questions do you ask

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hello

I was wondering, what are some of the questions you guys use to find out more about the girl you are interested in. I don’t mean questions about her job, or school, etc. I mean heart to heart stuff. Questions to differ you from any other guy she meets and talks too.

In other words what are some of the questions you find yourself asking to get her comfortable around you?

I think i lost one and i want to learn from my mistake. She always complained that i didn’t ask her enough questions about herself. She would always be saying...don’t you want to know anything about me?

A little background with this one..... I met her at my local gym and things seemed to grow pretty fast. I kind of pulled back because school is starting up. So for the next 6 months, i may or may not see or talk to her do to the fact we both are in different schools, about 4 hours apart. Do i just let the summer love go? We left on friendly terms.....but she seemed kind of on the distant side. I also think she may be a sunshine girl.

Any input would be appreciated.

Thank you

-John
 

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Originally posted by Legend
hello

I was wondering, what are some of the questions you guys use to find out more about the girl you are interested in. I don’t mean questions about her job, or school, etc. I mean heart to heart stuff. Questions to differ you from any other guy she meets and talks too.

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"i hate the fact that my d1ck is so large no girl will have anal with me..." Pout a little then to show your sensitive side and that you care about her feelings say: "how does that make you feel?"
 
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I don't think you not asking questions about her was the problem.

Talking to her *about* her is what you should've done more. She wouldn't think you didn't want know her if you did that.

That way she will always have something to talk about since women love to blab on and on and on and on and on....
 
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