"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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What qualities in other men give you the impression that they are "competition"?

Sweetcheeks

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If any of you have ever considered another man to be a threat to:

-Your success in a pickup
-Your relationship, long term or otherwise

What qualities/characteristics would/does such a man have?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I have, but the DJ rule is to not do this. It's tough, especially if you're involved with a flirty girl. I've figured this much out: the name of the game with this DJ stuff is to sway the girls emotions so she wants you so much she's not interested in anyone else. That's when you have a committment. You can't tell a girl how to feel and who to flirt and talk to.

When she sees that you're threatened or weak, she loses interest. You have to be strong and sure of yourself at all costs and then and only then, even the biggest c*ckblocking arseholes will have no effect on how much she wants you.

Trust me, I've figured this out the hard way.

That being said, there are some things that are downright disrespectful. But before you go blaming the other guys and getting pissed, just remember that getting mad only hurts you. Stay in control. If a guy is flirting a little too much with your girl, chances are that she's letting him, a result of losing interest in you. Go flirt with other girls, and even if you get shot down, she won't know it.
 

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Qualities of a man threat to me in my attraction/seduction life...

-He must be Joseph Mathews
-He posses the ability to control and read minds of women

Other than that all fair in Love and War.

Hey Thundercat Salute to you Brother. and Thank you.
 
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