"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What qualities in other men give you the impression that they are "competition"?

Sweetcheeks

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If any of you have ever considered another man to be a threat to:

-Your success in a pickup
-Your relationship, long term or otherwise

What qualities/characteristics would/does such a man have?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I have, but the DJ rule is to not do this. It's tough, especially if you're involved with a flirty girl. I've figured this much out: the name of the game with this DJ stuff is to sway the girls emotions so she wants you so much she's not interested in anyone else. That's when you have a committment. You can't tell a girl how to feel and who to flirt and talk to.

When she sees that you're threatened or weak, she loses interest. You have to be strong and sure of yourself at all costs and then and only then, even the biggest c*ckblocking arseholes will have no effect on how much she wants you.

Trust me, I've figured this out the hard way.

That being said, there are some things that are downright disrespectful. But before you go blaming the other guys and getting pissed, just remember that getting mad only hurts you. Stay in control. If a guy is flirting a little too much with your girl, chances are that she's letting him, a result of losing interest in you. Go flirt with other girls, and even if you get shot down, she won't know it.
 

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Qualities of a man threat to me in my attraction/seduction life...

-He must be Joseph Mathews
-He posses the ability to control and read minds of women

Other than that all fair in Love and War.

Hey Thundercat Salute to you Brother. and Thank you.
 
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