What percentage of females are narcissist?

[bat soup]

Is there a definite estimate? No, don't say all of them because that obviously isn't the case because you do run into level headed women. I'd say about 65 percent of them are though. I've run into them young and old though and all different looks wise. I will say from using OLD, that a lot of the women who're at least HB7 have some big narcissist traits including an HB9 I went on a date with was probably one of the biggest ones I've run into.

I would estimate about 99% of them.

 

[LTG71]

I’ve worked with a two narcissists for over a decade and this is what I’ve noticed

Male- Attachment issues, never married, no kids, doesn’t date for fear of losing freedom
1) Countless ”humble“ bags
2) Competitive to the end
3) Barely listens but his option/ideas are always better anyway
4) Ignores calls/texts even while having phone glued to hand
5) Always shows up late
6) Charms people to do his work, solely takes credit
7) Never admits fault
8) Other people‘s accomplishments are downplayed or ignored

Female- Madly insecure, attachment issues, never married, no kids, in 12yr LTR
1) Uses looks and charm to open people up
2) Once resource is identified, the love bombing begins
3) Easily triggered then talks mad sh!t about the person
4) Uses victim mindset, people feel bad for her, she is always in conflict with someone
5) People are compartmentalized for what resource they can provide
6) Has few friends or loses them eventually
7) Selfish to the bone
8) Always late
9) Flakes on countless engagements
10) Her way/idea or the highway
11) Mostly take, rarely gives

The male I would consider grandiose
The female I would consider covert

Both seem to have childhood drama and attachment issues as a result. Both selfish and always trying to prove they are important or better than others. I consider the female to be far worse as she uses people for what they can provide her and then treats them like dirt or non-existent when she doesn’t need them. The male is not as manipulative but still has an ego that becomes quite ridiculous at times.

They both wear makes and hide their true selves. The female got a DUI and hid it from certain people because she wanted to keep up the facade that she is a certain quality person. When she removes her mask, she is actually a toxic and miserable person that only cares about herself. She presents the narcissist cycle very clearly if you pay attention (love bomb, devaluation, discard, repeat). The male is charming and respected but it eventually grows old as everyone has to live in his shadow as he tries to hog the limelight.

My take on these two is that they never got the love they needed from their parents. Now in midlife, they struggle to feel important and secure in who they are. They go through life trying to jockey of attention and recognition from others. i’m probably more triggered by the female as I know we are just pawns in her twisted little world. I‘ve learned to regulate how much I give to these people over time.

 

[EyeBRollin]

100% of women are narc.

 

[EyeBRollin]

They are narcissists when they aren’t attracted to you is more accurate id say.

Nah. Every woman I’ve ever known has been narc. Maybe not my grandmother. Modern social media and free validation everywhere just destroys a woman’s brain.

 

[RazorRambo24]

way more dudes are narcissist then women.. narcissists are all about controlling everyone around them .. they try to do everything for their own benefit.. lots of women are selfless, they buy gifts for friends, siblings, family, go out of their way to do nice things and are thoughtful about alot of people other than themselves.. guys, alot of guys dont even buy their own friends gifts on their bday

 

[EyeBRollin]

lots of women are selfless, they buy gifts for friends, siblings, family, go out of their way to do nice things and are thoughtful about alot of people other than themselves..

Men, this is an important point:

Notice what is missing from this? The man she is romantically involved with…. Engaging in the dating / mating context the selflessness is replaced with extraction. Hence, my original comment- 100% of women are narc.

 

[RazorRambo24]

Men, this is an important point:

Notice what is missing from this? The man she is romantically involved with…. Engaging in the dating / mating context the selflessness is replaced with extraction. Hence, my original comment- 100% of women are narc.

Just because women haven't given YOU gifts, does not mean they dont do to other men. ive gotten some expensive gifts from women man.. this is some redpill incel bull**** ur kicking . The reason i didnt mention their partners is because that just obvious.. people usually buy gifts for their partners but not always their friends, family co workers, etc.

You're just kicking complete bs.. Statistics show less than 6% of the population are narcissistic so how can 100% of women be narcs? .. I'm sorry if thats been your experience, but maybe you're just a doormat/pushover.

I've dated narcissists but i've met more narcissistic men than I have women.. maybe its just me. though.. my experience is probably different than 90% of the people here for all I know

 

[EyeBRollin]

Just because women haven't given YOU gifts, does not mean they dont do to other men. ive gotten some expensive gifts from women man.. this is some redpill incel bull**** ur kicking . The reason i didnt mention their partners is because that just obvious.. people usually buy gifts for their partners but not always their friends, family co workers, etc.

Oh right… I’m an incel. I forgot that part.

You may think women are noble little creatures that do gestures with no expectation but that is far from reality. Most women don’t do shvt and expect everything from their man. The rest of the women do nice gestures because they are properly socialized… and still expect everything from their man. Bottom line is, women always expect you the man to provide them with some kind of value. Their inward thinking mating strategy is how they are biologically programmed. They are all narcs. You exist (in her mind) to provide value to her first.

 

[RazorRambo24]

Oh right… I’m an incel. I forgot that part.

You may think women are noble little creatures that do gestures with no expectation but that is far from reality. Most women don’t do shvt and expect everything from their man. The rest of the women do nice gestures because they are properly socialized… and still expect everything from their man. Bottom line is, women always expect you the man to provide them with some kind of value. Their inward thinking mating strategy is how they are biologically programmed. They are all narcs. You exist (in her mind) to provide value to her first.

No not at all, I just made a thread about how I love womens mind games/manipulationa nd navigating around them, aka having that emotional/mental fencing with women..

and I didn't call you an incel, i'm saying what you're kicking about "ALL WOMEN ARE NARCISSISSTS!" is what incels would say.. and what they do say.. I mean thats a bold and outrageous claim.. and it speaks VOLUMES about your experience with women being negative.. and for that im sorry.. But for some of us, we hav ehad amazing experiences with women who not only buy us gifts and do nice things for us, like fold our laundry, cook for us, help run errands for us, defend our honor in friend groups when we're not around where people may be talking smack about us, etc.. we also have good sexual and emotional connections where they are open to trying new things, talk about their feelings, or be able to hear us out when we vent about sht, etc

I hope your experience with women changes and you begin to meet women who are normal and not narcs.. But you really need to look at yourself in the mirror first and see jsut why you keep attracting the same type of women.. and thats the real deal here.

 

[RazorRambo24]

Bro chill your ass. @EyeBRollin is member for a long time here, I can assure you he isn’t an incel and damn men you all members should stop judging Peoples entire Personality that quickly, it really sucks.
When it comes to dating woman have those narcissistic tendencies all the time, I have to agree with that

Didnt call him an incel i meant what hes kicking sounds like some incel sht. You have to realize hes able to say **** like this because its a forum dominated by men.. Imagine saying that in a social circle with girls around, he'd totally kill the vibe.. if he said that about females I know, i'd feel like I had to defend them.. not him, because its just a craz to thing to say "ALL women are narcissists".. Idk if you guys dont have big social friend groups or what.. but you think that **** would slide? lol ..

oh no,. becuase its the internet, its cool right? because his experiences with women were negative, he is ultimately justified to say that and project that on all of us? hell naw.. That is childish.. We're grown men.. its not respectable to say or think like that. We need to learn to set our own negative experiences aside and realize that's not the experience of everyone else.. This is one of the major problems with SoSuave.. its a buncha self loathing men who agree with negative sht because its a whole lot of men who are not happy with their experiences with women.
I come back to reading this every once in a blue moon thinking things might have changed, or we'd get some hints of the golden age.. but ..doesn't seem like much has.

 

[EyeBRollin]

But for some of us, we hav ehad amazing experiences with women who not only buy us gifts and do nice things for us, like fold our laundry, cook for us, help run errands for us,

What I’m getting at is even those nice gestures do not stem from the goodness of her heart. You’ve already provided a massive amount of utility to her life. Ask yourself if she would do any of that for no reason at all.. (I.e. it’s just Tuesday let me do something nice for him!). No, women think about their own wants, needs, and desires first and foremost over yours. They are all self centered narcs.

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

I remember the first time I had a beer...

 

[LTG71]

“This is one of the major problems with SoSuave.. its a buncha self loathing men who agree with negative sht because its a whole lot of men who are not happy with their experiences with women.”

Can we not share our experiences and trade notes? Look at all the men’s institutions women are invading because they are selfish. Boy Scouts are now Scouts because heaven forbid we have a male only space in this world. Instead of pimping your daughters to sell cookies, have them do whatever you think they are missing out on. Women are not as kind, generous, loving, nurturing or innocent as we’ve been sold. As Rollo says, “when was your red pill moment?” Most men find the red pill after being burned and or destroyed by women. Women are selfish, self centered and some are raging narcissists. When you find one that does things for others without expectations, count your blessings. There are different personality types, some more giving than others.

Women are inherently self centered as a survival mechanism. Being the weaker sex, they need to do whatever they can to ensure their survival. Hypergamy and the friendzone are two prime examples of their strategy. A woman is more than happy to use a guy, with zero intention to reciprocate if he can fill her needs.

Ever notice when you get in a heated discussion with a woman, they make it about them and not the actual subject? “Why are you yelling at ME?” I’m not yelling at YOU, I am just speaking louder than you are about the topic. Me, Me, Me. Last night my kids had a dance and one decided last minute not to go because he didn’t have a date and felt like the odd man out. My wife made it all about her, she was annoyed and complaining because she washed his clothes and steamed his shirt and he chose not to go. Completely disregarding how our son was feeling, it was all about HER.

“But you really need to look at yourself in the mirror first and see just why you keep attracting the same type of women.. and thats the real deal here.”

This right here is gold. Be mindful of how people act and treat you. Actions speak louder than words. If you are a giving person, you will attractive narcissist and vampires. If the same situations keep happening, there is some self reflection that needs to happen.

Society also creates this dynamic as men are in the position of PROVIDER as one of the main qualifiers for success. Women are the beneficiaries of this socialization. “I want a man that can PROVIDE for ME and MY children.” Women on the other hand are socialized to believe they are special and deserving just for being alive. ThIs creates an environment for narcissism to flourish.