"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What parts of game do you keep in the LTR

Oxide

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Suppose you meet a girl, you drop the rest you are seeing because this one stands out.

She is cool, level headed girl, so there is virtually no drama and really easy going.

If you go into the relationship, what things do you still do to keep it interesting, you can't really play the no pick up the phone game or not talking to her for days.. because that would just be stupid. But you should always have that little spice there to keep her intrigued.

those who have been with a girl for a long time, and especially those who are married, how do you handle this?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Hakuna

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I think one of the most important things for an LTR is to prevent going into a daily routine. Usually LTR's struggle with maintaining passion, because people get bored or take each other for granted. Reinvent your passions, adapt to new situations, try new things, keep changing and evolving.
 
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