"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What parts of game do you keep in the LTR

Oxide

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Suppose you meet a girl, you drop the rest you are seeing because this one stands out.

She is cool, level headed girl, so there is virtually no drama and really easy going.

If you go into the relationship, what things do you still do to keep it interesting, you can't really play the no pick up the phone game or not talking to her for days.. because that would just be stupid. But you should always have that little spice there to keep her intrigued.

those who have been with a girl for a long time, and especially those who are married, how do you handle this?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Hakuna

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I think one of the most important things for an LTR is to prevent going into a daily routine. Usually LTR's struggle with maintaining passion, because people get bored or take each other for granted. Reinvent your passions, adapt to new situations, try new things, keep changing and evolving.
 
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