"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What other options are there when...

Michele l'Arcangelo

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What other options are there when...

She says she's busy
(instead of Nexting her right off the bat)

You need to do something with them a certain time... but they can't when you want to... but only can when they want to
(instead of cancelling the whole entire thing - not really a date)

There's more stuff that I pretty much forgot... I had a list and yes I read most of the bible.

If you have more questions that could have a second option, post it.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

oakraiderz2

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Meet ohter girls so you dont really care.
 

toddC

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nono, i've been in this situation before....infact i'm kinda still in it now. what i did was the classic showing interest...then taking it back...showing more interest...then taking it back...etc

what pretty much happend was:
I went from chillen with this girl WHENEVER she was available to now her initiating conversations with me...and HER asking when I can hang not the other way around.
 
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