"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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What other options are there when...

Michele l'Arcangelo

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What other options are there when...

She says she's busy
(instead of Nexting her right off the bat)

You need to do something with them a certain time... but they can't when you want to... but only can when they want to
(instead of cancelling the whole entire thing - not really a date)

There's more stuff that I pretty much forgot... I had a list and yes I read most of the bible.

If you have more questions that could have a second option, post it.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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oakraiderz2

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Meet ohter girls so you dont really care.
 

toddC

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nono, i've been in this situation before....infact i'm kinda still in it now. what i did was the classic showing interest...then taking it back...showing more interest...then taking it back...etc

what pretty much happend was:
I went from chillen with this girl WHENEVER she was available to now her initiating conversations with me...and HER asking when I can hang not the other way around.
 
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