Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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What other options are there when...

Michele l'Arcangelo

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What other options are there when...

She says she's busy
(instead of Nexting her right off the bat)

You need to do something with them a certain time... but they can't when you want to... but only can when they want to
(instead of cancelling the whole entire thing - not really a date)

There's more stuff that I pretty much forgot... I had a list and yes I read most of the bible.

If you have more questions that could have a second option, post it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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oakraiderz2

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Meet ohter girls so you dont really care.
 

toddC

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nono, i've been in this situation before....infact i'm kinda still in it now. what i did was the classic showing interest...then taking it back...showing more interest...then taking it back...etc

what pretty much happend was:
I went from chillen with this girl WHENEVER she was available to now her initiating conversations with me...and HER asking when I can hang not the other way around.
 
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