I'm interested in a girl, but she seems to love playing childish games. She is young (23), and that could explain it.
Anyway, she was the one who initiated a flirt with me. It was quite physical for a while, she sometimes leaned her tits and hips on me, lots of "accidental" rubbing at me, feet-flirting and so on. I was going to ask her out a while back, but I lost the courage.
There's one thing I don't understand though. One time it was me, her and another guy (lets call him Sam) talking at work. Then she says, while looking at me and smiling, "you know, me and Sam is very close". Then I say "oh, so you are so close that you are almost..." then she changed the subject before I finished (I was going to end with "hooking up?"). I know that she's not attracted to him in any way, even though she has been flirting with him, but was she trying to make me jealous? I used to get a little jealous when she was flirting with him, until I realised that she only sees him as a friend.
Then there's this other guy (lets call him Peter). I changed office not long ago, and now I am sitting next to Peter (not the same departement as the girl anymore). A while back (just before I changed office) she told me "you know, Peter looks so.....innocent, always smiling". And not long after that she started a massive talking/(flirting) offensive against Peter. And its always Peter she wants to talk to, and barely takes notice of me. She comes to him several times a day to ask him about stuff she needs help with, and is usually laughing and kidding. She also did what I would consider flirting with him once, In my presence. What bothers me is that she asks him to come to her office and help her, and then they sit there behind closed door. Who knows what they are doing?? I hope she doesn't do with him, what she did with me (leaning her tits on him)!
You need more background info before answering this. Peter is not a guy I would think she could be attracted to. He's short (shorter than her with high heels), bald on the top, very quiet and kinda submissive (he does whatever she asks him to), doesn't shave and dress boring. But he's nice, smart and makes decent money. I've also noticed that he's starting to like her, because he's nervous around her in lunch, and blushes and stuff. Oh, I almost forgot, I once read an email she sent to him where she called him "buddy" (friend). Is she actually attracted to him, or trying to make me jealous or just wants to play him around/be friends?
I have a feeling she could be interested in me. She is often nervous around me, but calms down as soon as I talk to her. I got a lot of buying signals a few months back. Recently she "accidentally" brushed her butt at my arm twice in the lunch room (actually in front of Peter). That same instance she was sitting very close to me, reading my paper with me. What is all these games about? I can't say I have "catched" her in physical flirt with other guys (except for some playful punches or pokes). But I don't know what she does when nobody watches. Is she trying to make me jealous or what?
Anyway, she was the one who initiated a flirt with me. It was quite physical for a while, she sometimes leaned her tits and hips on me, lots of "accidental" rubbing at me, feet-flirting and so on. I was going to ask her out a while back, but I lost the courage.
There's one thing I don't understand though. One time it was me, her and another guy (lets call him Sam) talking at work. Then she says, while looking at me and smiling, "you know, me and Sam is very close". Then I say "oh, so you are so close that you are almost..." then she changed the subject before I finished (I was going to end with "hooking up?"). I know that she's not attracted to him in any way, even though she has been flirting with him, but was she trying to make me jealous? I used to get a little jealous when she was flirting with him, until I realised that she only sees him as a friend.
Then there's this other guy (lets call him Peter). I changed office not long ago, and now I am sitting next to Peter (not the same departement as the girl anymore). A while back (just before I changed office) she told me "you know, Peter looks so.....innocent, always smiling". And not long after that she started a massive talking/(flirting) offensive against Peter. And its always Peter she wants to talk to, and barely takes notice of me. She comes to him several times a day to ask him about stuff she needs help with, and is usually laughing and kidding. She also did what I would consider flirting with him once, In my presence. What bothers me is that she asks him to come to her office and help her, and then they sit there behind closed door. Who knows what they are doing?? I hope she doesn't do with him, what she did with me (leaning her tits on him)!
You need more background info before answering this. Peter is not a guy I would think she could be attracted to. He's short (shorter than her with high heels), bald on the top, very quiet and kinda submissive (he does whatever she asks him to), doesn't shave and dress boring. But he's nice, smart and makes decent money. I've also noticed that he's starting to like her, because he's nervous around her in lunch, and blushes and stuff. Oh, I almost forgot, I once read an email she sent to him where she called him "buddy" (friend). Is she actually attracted to him, or trying to make me jealous or just wants to play him around/be friends?
I have a feeling she could be interested in me. She is often nervous around me, but calms down as soon as I talk to her. I got a lot of buying signals a few months back. Recently she "accidentally" brushed her butt at my arm twice in the lunch room (actually in front of Peter). That same instance she was sitting very close to me, reading my paper with me. What is all these games about? I can't say I have "catched" her in physical flirt with other guys (except for some playful punches or pokes). But I don't know what she does when nobody watches. Is she trying to make me jealous or what?
this is bad... at this rate, even if you make a move, she will ditch you soon 