"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What NOT to eat...

JoE BoXeR

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With summer underway I find that my diet is a lot less structured and I'm grabbing meals quickly and not really thinking about the nutrition of it. I'm not overweight but I would like to stay how I am so my muscles stand out when I start going to the gym more often.

So to cut to the chase, I'm wondering what are the foods that are absolute taboo. Foods you should avoid like the plague. The stuff you eat but really shouldn't.

I've already cut pop from my diet but still drink Nestea and powerade.

From what I've heard the following foods apply to this list:

pop
french fries
cheese
sour cream
white bread
potato chips


And that's about all I can think of. Use your great knowledge and add to my list!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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andyh

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Pizza
Ice-cream
Butter
Beer&Alcohol (While you have alcohol in your blood your body doesn't use bodyfat for it's metabolism)

Well you should avoid any type of fast food and try to go for slow carbohydrates(pasta and rice) and lean meat(chicken, turkey, tuna)
 

Big N

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Take cheese & butter off the list
 

wheelin&dealin

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If you eliminate all high GI carbs (fruits, pop, sugar...etc) you will lose a considerable amount of fat. It is the sweet stuff that impedes fat loss and contributes to you having a high percentage body fat.

Stick with low GI carbs (oatmeal, wheat bread, vegetables...etc) and protein (steak, chicken, tuna,...etc) to get the best results possible.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Industry

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Beer is allowed in any amount you desire once a week. I don't care how fast you want to get big... this keeps you sane and it wouldn't hurt you that bad anyways. Just do a little cardio to offset it if you're than anal about it... BUT I NEED MY BEER !
 

Jay26

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Get rid of a lot of your carbs (high and low IMO), specially the sugars, keep some of those fats, you don't need Nestea or Powerade for anything either, oh and eat lots of meat!:)
 

Gangster Of Love

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Avoid:

Sausage
Lard
Pork
Lamb
High fat beef
too much cheese
soda
coffees (starbucks types)
smoothies (jamba juice types)
white bread
 

FlyGuy

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Small tip: use mustard instead of mayonaise(sp?) for your sandwiches. 1 tablespoon of mayonaise has something like 90 calories in it!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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