"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
What NOT to do?
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
As for the large list posted earlier in this thread, I agree most of those things should generally be avoided. I disagree with some, however. I definitely think there are some times when you can compliment a girl for being pretty; many find it flattering. Also, I don't think it hurts to imply how thin she looks at times. My point is, that everyone has a different style and, believe it or not, so do girls. Don't shoot yourself in the foot by trying too hard to follow these "rules." They are not set in stone. Think of them as tips that you should take with a grain of salt.
A lot of the times, it just shows desperation, which is never good. Desperation is the result of something else where you're lacking, be it social skills or confidence or whatever. Many will think "Doesn't this guy have anything better to do than to text me all the time?" or "This guy must be really into me" (many times, resulting in the end of the thrill of the chase)
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If a girl finds a guy attractive, you're right, stuff like that probably doesn't matter, she probably loves it. The problem is when you haven't built the attraction yet and do this stuff, it can put the woman in a position of power where she knows you want her but she doesn't really care. That's when it can seem desperate and kill the thrill of the chase like WCF said.Zebedee said:
I think you want to seem interested in her to spark her interest, but leave some doubt in her mind so she wonders about it.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
That way, she will be guessing if you like her or not, if you ask her to hang out.