"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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MrCookies

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Alright, I used the DJ techniques beggining a while ago. I read for a long time and stopped. When i used them I noticed I do attract many more females. But to the point. I have a problem. Me and this girl had been dating for 2 and a half months now and we were really passionate, and now she just broke up with me out of nowhere really, after a very good night out on the town. After we broke up, we had sex another time, and even now we still kiss and hold hands and such. WHat do you think I should do If I want to get her back? Just lay low and play it cool? Dont pursue her right? Just act like how I did before we started dating? She seems to get really possesive when I talk to other girls, so should I continue doing that? I really love the girl, even if that is wussy, but I am good at not being a *****, so advice if any please is appreciated. Thanks guys.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Wiesman44

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You dont love her b/c you were only dating a 2 months.

You dont want her back, you're just heart-broken from the break-up. Leave her, she doesn't know what she wants.

There's other fish in the sea.
 

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I went through something similar recently - was dating this girl for 3 months. And then poof she just cut all contact literally overnight without any sort of fight or indication - nothing... LOL

I'm still curious if we are actually going out because we never actually broke it off - funny when I think about it.

It was confusing because usually there is some sort of problem/fight that precipitates but the reality I've learned to accept is this... you can't make a girl like you.

Just be yourself and they can take it or leave it. Clearly the girl in my case decided to leave it. I have no clue the reason nor have I ever bothered to try and figure it out - with women you can never figure it out because there is no logic or accountability with it.

Just realize that you make your life not who you date.
 
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