What nationality are you and how does this affect your game?

[In2theGame]

Black guy at an old southern traditional university. Lets just say sometimes I wish I was born gay because this shvt is terrible

lol

 

[In2theGame]

I attract all types of women but its white girls who are the most attracted to me. Black women like me as well. Latin women a bit here and there but im not that attracted to them. I am a big mix but i guess it makes for an attractive guy lol I am Italian, Venezuelan and Arab. I get different reactions from people wondering what nationality i am, I can pass for either of the three but a lot of people say i look mostly Latino. Ive had a few random people tell me i look like Adam Rodriguez but a younger version obviously lol

 

[CaptainSaveAh0]

I'm Eastern European can't complain about it... most girls from all races will go for white guys.

 

[Dhoulmagus]

I'm Eastern European can't complain about it... most girls from all races will go for white guys.

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[CaptainSaveAh0]

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lol stop being so negative man. Your a black guy... Most girls I know would date a black guy ( and I don't know very many black girls) and would for sure fantasize about fvcking a black guy.

Become that fantasy and embrace who you are.

 

[Dhoulmagus]

lol stop being so negative man. Your a black guy... Most girls I know would date a black guy ( and I don't know very many black girls) and would for sure fantasize about fvcking a black guy.

Become that fantasy and embrace who you are.

Where I live at, being with a black guy lowers your status amongst your peers and gets you disowned by your parents.

 

[yonggg]

Well...besides you ;-) LOL
But in fairness to some asian guys i knew, wow. they got game and also has the same mindset of a DJ. hahaha. Cheers

yea, many asian guys are afc,
im asian guy, but now im learni to be a dj.

 

[Ambitious Player]

American male of Indian heritage here and just had to comment on this thread. To me it seems like this whole race thing with Asian and Indian guys is a contagious virus. One Asian guy goes on and talks about how bad being Asian is and how women won't date Asians and other Asians who weren't even aware of their race being a disadvantage now think it is a disadvantage, in the long run you get insecure Asian AFCs that flood up PUA Forums. Similar thing has been happening with Indian guys. This **** has done damage to men from the two races that have potential, insecurity can be a nasty thing to deal with, it slowly chews up your confidence and other traits needed to attract women. All this talk of "women hate my race" and sounding hopeless is just alienating young males from those races and giving rise to more AFCs.

I am over 6 ft tall and have managed to do well with almost all races of women. Not shy, not scared to approach a girl, and I can talk to them without any issues. The PUA material has never worked for me, don't use the pickup lines or any of that gimmick, I just let it happen I guess.

For some reason I have found that Black women and darker Indian women are the most attracted to me and give me all sorts of IOIs but I am not interested in them as much. Darker Asian girls (Southeast Asian) are almost the same way but not that interested in them either.

Latin girls and mixed looking girls have hit it off well with me and I have had some enjoyable relationships with them. Persian girls seem to dig me too and have had some fun times with them. These are the groups of girls I like and are usually receptive to me. I think that Indian men and Middle Eastern men who look good and have game can do well with these kinds of girls. Just a few weeks ago I saw a couple where the guy looked like Jay Sean and the girl looked like Chloe Bennet (Agents of Shield). The two were holding hands and clearly into each other. Even Arianny Celeste was dating an Indian dude from what I hear.

My struggles have come from White girls but not all White girls (or even most).

I have found European girls (do better with eastern european than western european) to be fairly receptive to me which kind of surprises me given that I do have somewhat of a Middle Eastern appearance, have had a lot of fun with them. With American girls I have usually done well with those from more diverse or working class type areas.

The typical suburban girls who have well off parents are not that interested in me and a lot of my friends have found them tough to crack (maybe you guys can share your experiences with them). I found that these girls are often going after the guy with the All American looks they can show off to their friends, have hardly seen these girls go interracial. Starting to think maybe game doesn't work that well on them and it is more about status and looks with only a small number being about game. These girls might be the toughest ones to crack, it is as if they don't even care about money because the guys they grew up around had lots of it. In the past I have seen glimpses of success with these girls but nothing much outside of that.

 

[Dhoulmagus]

American male of Indian heritage here and just had to comment on this thread. To me it seems like this whole race thing with Asian and Indian guys is a contagious virus. One Asian guy goes on and talks about how bad being Asian is and how women won't date Asians and other Asians who weren't even aware of their race being a disadvantage now think it is a disadvantage, in the long run you get insecure Asian AFCs that flood up PUA Forums. Similar thing has been happening with Indian guys. This **** has done damage to men from the two races that have potential, insecurity can be a nasty thing to deal with, it slowly chews up your confidence and other traits needed to attract women. All this talk of "women hate my race" and sounding hopeless is just alienating young males from those races and giving rise to more AFCs.

I am over 6 ft tall and have managed to do well with almost all races of women. Not shy, not scared to approach a girl, and I can talk to them without any issues. The PUA material has never worked for me, don't use the pickup lines or any of that gimmick, I just let it happen I guess.

For some reason I have found that Black women and darker Indian women are the most attracted to me and give me all sorts of IOIs but I am not interested in them as much. Darker Asian girls (Southeast Asian) are almost the same way but not that interested in them either.

Latin girls and mixed looking girls have hit it off well with me and I have had some enjoyable relationships with them. Persian girls seem to dig me too and have had some fun times with them. These are the groups of girls I like and are usually receptive to me. I think that Indian men and Middle Eastern men who look good and have game can do well with these kinds of girls. Just a few weeks ago I saw a couple where the guy looked like Jay Sean and the girl looked like Chloe Bennet (Agents of Shield). The two were holding hands and clearly into each other. Even Arianny Celeste was dating an Indian dude from what I hear.

My struggles have come from White girls but not all White girls (or even most).

I have found European girls (do better with eastern european than western european) to be fairly receptive to me which kind of surprises me given that I do have somewhat of a Middle Eastern appearance, have had a lot of fun with them. With American girls I have usually done well with those from more diverse or working class type areas.

The typical suburban girls who have well off parents are not that interested in me and a lot of my friends have found them tough to crack (maybe you guys can share your experiences with them). I found that these girls are often going after the guy with the All American looks they can show off to their friends, have hardly seen these girls go interracial. Starting to think maybe game doesn't work that well on them and it is more about status and looks with only a small number being about game. These girls might be the toughest ones to crack, it is as if they don't even care about money because the guys they grew up around had lots of it. In the past I have seen glimpses of success with these girls but nothing much outside of that.

Yes, I have never really gamed a girl. They just go after me, but it's like fishing in an empty pond sometimes.

 

[Ambitious Player]

TBH my results have skyrocketed after it looked like I hit the gym and when I put some thoughts into what I wore. No doubt game is important and you always need it but what AFCs get wrong is when they think it is all they need. So they go out, try their new PUA gimmicks and all the sexual attraction theory, get terrible results, and then say it is because of some other factor (race, height, etc.). You need game but only at a basic level (talking, escalation, and just not being too attached). Once you dig deep into all these PUA theories it becomes pointless and you come off as a weirdo.

 

[backbreaker]

lol stop being so negative man. Your a black guy... Most girls I know would date a black guy ( and I don't know very many black girls) and would for sure fantasize about fvcking a black guy.

Become that fantasy and embrace who you are.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=210430


they want the fantasy. they don't want the black engineering student

black women don't want the black engineering student because he's not black enough

white women don't' want the black engineering student becuase he's not white or enough or ironically, black enough.


fat women don't' want him because they assume "he can't handle her"


I really do not fathom how white guys out here en masse can't get laid. I really can't. If you're white, not a druggie.. **** that's not even mandatory lol, not a felon,someone out there wants you.

 

[Mike32ct]

I really do not fathom how white guys out here en masse can't get laid. I really can't. If you're white, not a druggie.. **** that's not even mandatory lol, not a felon,someone out there wants you.

First, it's a grass is greener sort of thing. It's easy to think that another group has it easier.

But getting to your point specifically, being white in the West is considered generic. Unless he's really tall or good looking or has multiple tattoos and felonies lol, he's not going to get laid easily because he doesn't stand out.
I would even argue that looks are MORE critical for white dudes than others because we typically don't have the exotic factor as a wildcard.

 

[Ambitious Player]

I think being White has a higher ceiling in the US than any other race. When girls think of hot guys they are going to typically think of White men. From my own experience, I have managed to do just as well as my friends from other minority groups but when it has come to me being next to my friend that happens to be White along with tall or good looking, the game is over before it has even started. White American girls (especially if rich and upper middle class) are the most loyal to men of their own race without question. The whole open minded thing is an act and nothing else, these girls definitely hold it against you for being a minority. Once you are in situations where there are plenty of these girls (private universities, nice neighborhoods) you start to see how much easier your White friends have it than you do. Sure these girls will talk to you and pretend to be your friend but they will make it clear to their circle that you are not their lover and will do their best to keep the distance.

It is a status thing to them. Some days I still feel that if I was to max out looks, money, and status along with having game, I would not be able to do consistently well with women of that particular niche. It is a tough pill to swallow for me but sometimes you just have to swallow it.

Sometimes I feel like the ceiling is there for a man who happens to be of a minority ground while for a White guy the sky is the limit. Maybe this changes in the future, one can hope, but right now this is the way things seem to be.

 

[rum]

White guy of northern european extraction

I literally have to beat asians and black girls off with a stick. Can't stand them, not attracted to them.

I have in my okcupid inbox right now 18 messages(this is going back about a months, I don't get 18 messages a day obviously). 8 from blacks, 8 from asians...2 from white girls. Both white girls look to be 6.5's or so (meh)

6 of the black girls have kids already. Every one that has a kid is 24 or under. 5 of them are disgustingly obese.

 

[SgtSplacker]

Cuban... I'd say it's a plus.

I dunno what this Asian crap is all about, I've never heard any female speak negatively about Asians.

Some Indian dudes just need to clean up a bit, you're not exempt from the hygiene/grooming rules Indian guys. Kind of a culture thing too, I see lots of Indian guys like to grow their hair and nails, light on the deodorant. Those things by themselves are not deal breakers, you just need to know how to apply those things without looking gross...

 

[MillionBillionaire]

Asians have to live with the small penis theory.

Hence all the penis exercises I do. lol.

 

[Bokanovsky]

Cuban... I'd say it's a plus.

I dunno what this Asian crap is all about, I've never heard any female speak negatively about Asians.

Some Indian dudes just need to clean up a bit, you're not exempt from the hygiene/grooming rules Indian guys. Kind of a culture thing too, I see lots of Indian guys like to grow their hair and nails, light on the deodorant. Those things by themselves are not deal breakers, you just need to know how to apply those things without looking gross...

Plus they eat curry all day every day...which gives their body odours a distinct scent (a fact they often don't realize).

 

[Bokanovsky]

double post

 

[skinnyguy]

I think being White has a higher ceiling in the US than any other race. When girls think of hot guys they are going to typically think of White men. From my own experience, I have managed to do just as well as my friends from other minority groups but when it has come to me being next to my friend that happens to be White along with tall or good looking, the game is over before it has even started. White American girls (especially if rich and upper middle class) are the most loyal to men of their own race without question. The whole open minded thing is an act and nothing else, these girls definitely hold it against you for being a minority. Once you are in situations where there are plenty of these girls (private universities, nice neighborhoods) you start to see how much easier your White friends have it than you do. Sure these girls will talk to you and pretend to be your friend but they will make it clear to their circle that you are not their lover and will do their best to keep the distance.

It is a status thing to them. Some days I still feel that if I was to max out looks, money, and status along with having game, I would not be able to do consistently well with women of that particular niche. It is a tough pill to swallow for me but sometimes you just have to swallow it.

Sometimes I feel like the ceiling is there for a man who happens to be of a minority ground while for a White guy the sky is the limit. Maybe this changes in the future, one can hope, but right now this is the way things seem to be.

Yup.

My cousin married a white guy who is a compete deadbeat... Been unemployed and living with her for 15 years, sits at home and drinks beer while she works.

White guys really have no excuse for not getting laid. All they need is a pulse. On the other hand I have to constantly work on myself, exercise, have a high paying job, and have tons of friends just to get a number from an HB 6

 

[VikingKing]

Yup.

My cousin married a white guy who is a compete deadbeat... Been unemployed and living with her for 15 years, sits at home and drinks beer while she works.

White guys really have no excuse for not getting laid. All they need is a pulse. On the other hand I have to constantly work on myself, exercise, have a high paying job, and have tons of friends just to get a number from an HB 6

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