What Mystery hasn't told you about negging

[Mad Manic]

Negs work very well it just has to look like a joke.

The right reaction will be her laughing and hitting you on the arm.

You can smack a girl and call her a dirty wh0re but if you look like your joking she'll just laugh with you and get all red and flustered.

Correct, as shown in my post regarding me joking about the girl's hair.

 

[ketostix]

I think if you throw a neg at a girl jokingly within the opener to a girl you just met before you have rapport or comfort you'll just piss her off and look bad. But if you open a girl and she's giving you an attitude that she's better and you're not good enough or just being slightly disrespectful, negging her, jokingly or matter of factly but never in a mean tone, might communicate to her that you don't agree with her attitude and won't accept it.

I don't like the word neg, as this sets up the mentality to insult. I see it more as an IOD (Indicator of Disinterest). When you have rapport and comfort with the girl and you deliver an IOD in a joking manner, that's teasing her about your interest in her and a way to push/pull (show interest/show disinterest) to show you're a challenge and to make her have to jump through hoops and earn you.

But Negs were often explained as a way to break through a hot girl's b!tchshield by saying something like, "nice nails, are they real..?" to lower her value/raise yours in theory. And I don't think that works. I think a lot of times she'll just sense that your trying to manipulate her and just be put off by it. I personally haven't been able to get it to work very often, and stopped doing it long ago.

A lot of times a girl will have an ice shield when you first open her and you just have to plow through it. But if she gives you a b!tchy attitude I think you should "neg" the attitude and what she said not her nails or personal effects. See the distinction? Don't GIRLS neg each others over petty personal effect but a high value would GUY would neg an attitude?

I think just not complimenting the girl or stating your intent is all the neg you need most of the time.

 

[ER!C L!VE]

Okay bro. In case you havent been paying attention, I give my book for free to anyone who requests it.

So yes, i'd stir shyt up anyway, and I dont see the [point in removing the add. The owners of the sight have no problem with advertisements. Plenty of people here advertise, as well as post.

Do you want a copy. Does anyone else but you really care if the add is there or not. Have you gotten laid recently? Are you angry? Why read my posts?

Yea, I figured you were here trying to make money. From one online sales person to another - you're going about it the wrong way.

 

[Bonez]

Yea, I figured you were here trying to make money. From one online sales person to another - you're going about it the wrong way.

Totally agree with you Eric. Plus the terms of agreement for the site is no ads in your signature... why do you think Docs got banned?

 

[Dongfu]

Yea, I figured you were here trying to make money. From one online sales person to another - you're going about it the wrong way.

After my reply, you still think i'm trying to advertise

I agree that this would be ineffective. In actuality, the book is being reviewed by publishers at this time. They probably wont want me having a site for the book. So, you can look foreward to seeing the link gone very soon. :yes:

Unless this gut is right ^^^^ and it's in the terms that no links are allowed to other sites, even though there are plenty. I'll remove it asap, as I dont want be banned.

Until then, wish me luck, and i'll send you the paper back when it's out.