"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What Move Should I Make?

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Juggalo

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I'm going over to my girlfriends house after she gets off of work today (Thursday) and we're going to be alone for a few hours...and even when her mom and dad get home...we'll still have our privacy in her room...door shut...

Anyway...we're just going to hang out in her room and watch movies and stuff...and we've been together for a week and a few days...my question to you all is this...

What move do I make?

We've made out...but it was a short one because I was leaving and all...so I haven't really made out with her long enough to fill her up and all...

Should I make out with her and fill her up and then after I've played with the boobs some...go down under?

Would it be too much to finger this girl? What would be too much? I guess that's what I'm really wanting to know...

What would be the furthest that you all would go? I don't wanna lose this girl or turn her away...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Gangster Of Love

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Obviously you are either too young and/or inexperienced to know how to progress. You need to get her turned on, and tease her enough for her to start escalating things.

Start by smelling her, long and deep smells on her face, back of her neck, arms, shoulders, upper back, etc. If you can do this before you even kiss her, the better.

Get her very turned on, then back off, and tease her by pulling off when you see she's really getting into it. You want to get her to the point where she will not want you to stop.

I recommend you do not try to escalate to sex. If you put it off, one, she will really want you next time, and two, you will be in a position where sex is realistic. Don't try to sex her, not with her parents in the house, because if you do something wrong, she will use that as an excuse.

If you can get her to be the one who suggests getting more intimate, then you can proceed, but don't have sex with her. Leave her beggin for more.

If I keep telling you how to turn this woman, I will have to charge you, so I better stop. I might as well go do it for you.
 
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Originally posted by Gangster Of Love
If I keep telling you how to turn this woman, I will have to charge you, so I better stop. I might as well go do it for you.
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Thanks

I really appreciate it, man.
 
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I've been in this EXACT situation.
You cuddle up, watch the movie and that's when you start to tease her.
boob massaging is the best thing you can do here...
once you've got her a little more wound up of course ;)
 
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Don't think of it as "moves". Relax and have fun. Take it slow, but move it forward.

Seriously...start with a kiss, enjoy that, wait until you feel that you're both comfortable there, then move to the next step. This young lady is a wonderland for you to explore. Enjoy it instead of worrying about what to touch when and where. :p
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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