"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What Move Should I Make?

Juggalo

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I'm going over to my girlfriends house after she gets off of work today (Thursday) and we're going to be alone for a few hours...and even when her mom and dad get home...we'll still have our privacy in her room...door shut...

Anyway...we're just going to hang out in her room and watch movies and stuff...and we've been together for a week and a few days...my question to you all is this...

What move do I make?

We've made out...but it was a short one because I was leaving and all...so I haven't really made out with her long enough to fill her up and all...

Should I make out with her and fill her up and then after I've played with the boobs some...go down under?

Would it be too much to finger this girl? What would be too much? I guess that's what I'm really wanting to know...

What would be the furthest that you all would go? I don't wanna lose this girl or turn her away...
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Gangster Of Love

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Obviously you are either too young and/or inexperienced to know how to progress. You need to get her turned on, and tease her enough for her to start escalating things.

Start by smelling her, long and deep smells on her face, back of her neck, arms, shoulders, upper back, etc. If you can do this before you even kiss her, the better.

Get her very turned on, then back off, and tease her by pulling off when you see she's really getting into it. You want to get her to the point where she will not want you to stop.

I recommend you do not try to escalate to sex. If you put it off, one, she will really want you next time, and two, you will be in a position where sex is realistic. Don't try to sex her, not with her parents in the house, because if you do something wrong, she will use that as an excuse.

If you can get her to be the one who suggests getting more intimate, then you can proceed, but don't have sex with her. Leave her beggin for more.

If I keep telling you how to turn this woman, I will have to charge you, so I better stop. I might as well go do it for you.
 

Juggalo

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Originally posted by Gangster Of Love
If I keep telling you how to turn this woman, I will have to charge you, so I better stop. I might as well go do it for you.
Thanks

I really appreciate it, man.
 

MidnightResistance

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I've been in this EXACT situation.
You cuddle up, watch the movie and that's when you start to tease her.
boob massaging is the best thing you can do here...
once you've got her a little more wound up of course ;)
 

squirrels

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Don't think of it as "moves". Relax and have fun. Take it slow, but move it forward.

Seriously...start with a kiss, enjoy that, wait until you feel that you're both comfortable there, then move to the next step. This young lady is a wonderland for you to explore. Enjoy it instead of worrying about what to touch when and where. :p
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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