Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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What Move Should I Make?

Juggalo

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I'm going over to my girlfriends house after she gets off of work today (Thursday) and we're going to be alone for a few hours...and even when her mom and dad get home...we'll still have our privacy in her room...door shut...

Anyway...we're just going to hang out in her room and watch movies and stuff...and we've been together for a week and a few days...my question to you all is this...

What move do I make?

We've made out...but it was a short one because I was leaving and all...so I haven't really made out with her long enough to fill her up and all...

Should I make out with her and fill her up and then after I've played with the boobs some...go down under?

Would it be too much to finger this girl? What would be too much? I guess that's what I'm really wanting to know...

What would be the furthest that you all would go? I don't wanna lose this girl or turn her away...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Gangster Of Love

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Obviously you are either too young and/or inexperienced to know how to progress. You need to get her turned on, and tease her enough for her to start escalating things.

Start by smelling her, long and deep smells on her face, back of her neck, arms, shoulders, upper back, etc. If you can do this before you even kiss her, the better.

Get her very turned on, then back off, and tease her by pulling off when you see she's really getting into it. You want to get her to the point where she will not want you to stop.

I recommend you do not try to escalate to sex. If you put it off, one, she will really want you next time, and two, you will be in a position where sex is realistic. Don't try to sex her, not with her parents in the house, because if you do something wrong, she will use that as an excuse.

If you can get her to be the one who suggests getting more intimate, then you can proceed, but don't have sex with her. Leave her beggin for more.

If I keep telling you how to turn this woman, I will have to charge you, so I better stop. I might as well go do it for you.
 

Juggalo

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Originally posted by Gangster Of Love
If I keep telling you how to turn this woman, I will have to charge you, so I better stop. I might as well go do it for you.
Thanks

I really appreciate it, man.
 

MidnightResistance

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I've been in this EXACT situation.
You cuddle up, watch the movie and that's when you start to tease her.
boob massaging is the best thing you can do here...
once you've got her a little more wound up of course ;)
 

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Don't think of it as "moves". Relax and have fun. Take it slow, but move it forward.

Seriously...start with a kiss, enjoy that, wait until you feel that you're both comfortable there, then move to the next step. This young lady is a wonderland for you to explore. Enjoy it instead of worrying about what to touch when and where. :p
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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