"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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What motivates you?

MM92

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Who on here finds it hard to motivate themselves to workout and gain muscle and/or lose weight? What keeps you motivated to improve?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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secretasianman

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i'm a pretty active person so i just motivate myself by seeing how i improved. If you're looking for motivation, you really need to find out why you want to workout. you want to look good at the beach? get better at sports? just be fit enough to handle any physical situation? Its not that hard to motivate yourself once you get into a groove. peoplse used to tell me this all the time, but i had a hard time believing it. Now that it's happened to me i can say its the truth.
 

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I just love to train in moderation (3x a week) and I've seen the benefits. I'm now 40 years old and I feel great. Sometimes I'll spend a few weeks getting extra intense and work on a specific goal (fat loss, etc). Other times I'll just stay in "maintenance mode" and train with less intensity.
 

AlexLefty

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That I don't want to be a fat fvck.
It's 2nd nature to be fit now.
If I have spare time, might as well be doing something productive.
 

Quiksilver

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I hate feeling and looking gross, so that motivates me to maintain reasonable level of bodyfat and musculature. Beyond that, the week to week grinde of improving my numbers on the big 4 lifts, is what keeps me in there erryday.

I've also adapted my cardio sessions to be useful for other kinds of learning, primarily through audiobooks.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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JCRoberts

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MM92 said:
Who on here finds it hard to motivate themselves to workout and gain muscle and/or lose weight? What keeps you motivated to improve?
I suppose it's just the feeling that working out gives me. After a workout, I feel energized. I feel healthier. If I don't work out for a long time, I feel fatigued. Working out is a must, for many reasons, and not only to look good. But it's also for health, confidence, energy, etc.

JC
 

Down Low

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What keeps me motivated to lose weight? Every time I wake up with my arms asleep, followed by a couple days of weakness and joint pain. Type 2 diabetes is creeping up on me. The only way to avoid taking metformin every day is to keep losing the fat.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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girl making out with boyfriend .....is checking me out at the same time..lolz
but seriously i'm gaining more respect from other people...also gaining more confidence especially when i look at the guy in the mirror
 

Who Dares Win

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To be better than those around me, it doesnt work only for the gym but for everything I do.

I dont believe in equality in any form, there are those who are above and those who are beneath and I simply dont accept to be beneath.

I would rather feel pain and work my ass off and get the lion share, than have a easy unchallenged life and settle for a mediocre position and an average quality life.
 

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I motivate myself looking like videogame characters
 

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i have no social life or anything else going for myself, i just train hard out of desperation to better myself, its the only way i know how
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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