"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What more can I do? Help me improve...

Dan08

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Thought I'd post this in Anything Else just as it isn't DJ related really.

Let me give you a brief background about me.

I'm a 19 y/o university student studying a music/film degree and I'm 2 years in.

Last year I almost died after getting drunk, passing out in the cold and almost dying from hypothermia. It shook myself and my family to the core and whilst it was harrowing at how close I came to death (20 minutes) it has perhaps spurned me onto doing more with my life in the past year than I would have done had it not happened and I am thankful for that.

So, I am always wanting to improve now physically and mentally. I don't like to stagnate and get bored very easily sitting around.

Currently I do the following:

-Work my balls of at university
-Gym 5x a week
-Squash at least once a week
-Read biographies & self-help books/watch motivational videos. I particularly like Les Brown/Eric Thomas as motivational speakers
-Invest into stocks and shares
-Run an online business (work in progress)
-Socialise occasionally with close friends, we grab a film, hit the pub etc
-Produce a local radio show

Outside of hobbies and interests etc I try and live my life to the full

-Continuously try and improve my physical appearance i.e. research removing spots
-Have a FWB setup so get regular sex 1-2 times a week.
-Physical excersize 5 times a week
-Get up earlier in the day to make my day longer
-Rarely have free time, I'm always looking to fill it with something that may improve my lifestyle. i.e. Read a book instead of playing a video game etc

And yet I find myself wanting more from my life, I look around at my peers and can't figure out they can accept their current situations.

So SS, where do I go from here?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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FairShake

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You literally sound more accomplished than most dudes I know and they're all over 30 while you're only 19.

I'd say worry less about other people. What they're doing or what they think of your accomplishments.

You're doing great, unbelievably so.
 

Dan08

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FairShake said:
You literally sound more accomplished than most dudes I know and they're all over 30 while you're only 19.

I'd say worry less about other people. What they're doing or what they think of your accomplishments.

You're doing great, unbelievably so.
Well thank you FairShake those are kind words indeed!

Ok, I find it's not actively an issue with me. I mean I don't do all it for them right? :D
 
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