"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hi,
I'm just curious on what this could mean. The girl really isn't THAT pretty (7 at best and maybe even then im being generous....) so its not a huge deal to me whether she may like me or not.

Well i met this girl in class a couple months ago and we got along pretty well. She's a nice funny and let me get away with alot thing (ie didn't really mind me putting my around her etc).
But for some reason, second semester comes and shes ice cold. Now our conversation least not more than a few sentences and even saying "hi"....its seems more out of politeness than out of joy. It's like we hardly know each other.
Not that i wanna go after her (i'm too busy: I have a non profit organization i run and plus the semester is a killer). But im curious could she like me or what. (again, I'm just curious cause shes hardly a 7). She just shy all of a sudden or what could happen?
She also has other guy friends tho..............and she's still the sagm way all along. Don't really know why.
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Thx but nah i dont think its me (of course i could be wrong). I didnt really do anything different.......she just wont talk to me now. Who knows why frankly
 
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Maybe you missed your opportunity. maybe now she has a boyfriend. Maybe she got tired of flirting and waiting for you to make the move. Whatever the reason, if it's closure you need, simply ask for the number or a date. That'll give you the definite answer as to whether she's interested or not.
 
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just forget about it dude. dont let it get to you.
you got that organization to worry about, and school is 100 times more important than any girl (esp one that is hardly a 7).

girls will come and go dude, but your education lasts forever.

nail 'em while u can, and 4get about the ones that give u trouble that isnt worth it
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Sounds like she got disgusted waiting for you to make a move.
 
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yah maybe she got tired of waiting im not sure. I know she's still single tho.............Its not really a big deal to me I just wanna know why that happens.
 
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The window only stays open for so long. Probably mean she had some IL but you waited which she takes as an insult.
 
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pretty much everyone here is right. she was interested, and you didn't make a move. been there, done that...i know exactly what you mean...there was this chick i wasn't very interested in, but we flirted for a bit...and i didn't make moves...she's probably given you some hints, and you've missed them.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I've been in this situation, only with girls that i was interested in:( :( :( :(
 
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hey thx for the advice.

Well me and her haven't really spoken at all actually (she'll wave in the hallway but thats about it. Its like she doesn't wanna talk to me even when the opportunity arises. I have no clue why but hey she's not that pretty anywas.

Again a little update for curious souls.
 
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not that pretty? you shallow waste of f-ucking space!! what makes U think your so damn special?? if you don't 'feel' anything for this girl then back off and let someone who does want her, don't play with peoples emotions, that really pisses me off!!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by ShockDoctor
not that pretty? you shallow waste of f-ucking space!! what makes U think your so damn special?? if you don't 'feel' anything for this girl then back off and let someone who does want her, don't play with peoples emotions, that really pisses me off!!
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Hehe, that's a cute response. I never meant any harm. I only wanted to satisfy curiosity thats all..... you know i cant really ask these questions else where. Didn't mean to angry you. (this is my other account.....lost the password to the other)
 
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