"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Read more...

What message should i send her ?

Andiee

New Member
Joined
Aug 3, 2010
Messages
4
Reaction score
0
Looking for simple advice from those who are good in texting game. Recently i got in contact with some girl over net, we exchanged numbers and then moved to sms and also exchanged photos... and agreed to meet when i get home in 7-10 days !

But until i get home i think i should send her some more SMS so we stay in touch ! .... We don't know eachother, only few things so it would be cool if someone give me idea what interesting/sexy message should i send her meanwhile!

she is working in bank btw
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

seethehoop

Don Juan
Joined
Jun 13, 2012
Messages
182
Reaction score
8
Don't over think it and don't try and have a convo over text. Keep this random. I tend to talk sh!t over text. I good one I borrowed was

"have you heard the news? Aliens have landed and are abducting all the sexy people so they can breed. Don't worry. You should be fine. I just wanted to say good bye."
 

Andiee

New Member
Joined
Aug 3, 2010
Messages
4
Reaction score
0
Yes i think same something random and funny/sexy or whatever.. just to stay in touch in this 7 days or so .. anyone have some other good texting idea ( in this dating game only man are one who need to be full of ideas and girls only wait and smile but thats human nature i guess) ?
 

Iceberg

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 19, 2002
Messages
3,110
Reaction score
136
Age
45
Location
Manhattan, NY
You're away from home? Just say something interesting about your trip. Make it up if you have to. Just something funny, quick, and interesting. And then disappear. Don't stretch it out into some long azz text conversation.

For instance, if you're on a business trip:

"Me and the coworkers just got back from the casino. And of course, I won. Always bet on black, baby."

Just something quick that will encourage a smile, and make you seem like you're doing interesting things. Don't write anything trying to be "sexy" or use some canned comedic material. It just sounds lame and unnatural.
 
Top