Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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What message should i send her ?

Andiee

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Looking for simple advice from those who are good in texting game. Recently i got in contact with some girl over net, we exchanged numbers and then moved to sms and also exchanged photos... and agreed to meet when i get home in 7-10 days !

But until i get home i think i should send her some more SMS so we stay in touch ! .... We don't know eachother, only few things so it would be cool if someone give me idea what interesting/sexy message should i send her meanwhile!

she is working in bank btw
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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seethehoop

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Don't over think it and don't try and have a convo over text. Keep this random. I tend to talk sh!t over text. I good one I borrowed was

"have you heard the news? Aliens have landed and are abducting all the sexy people so they can breed. Don't worry. You should be fine. I just wanted to say good bye."
 

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Yes i think same something random and funny/sexy or whatever.. just to stay in touch in this 7 days or so .. anyone have some other good texting idea ( in this dating game only man are one who need to be full of ideas and girls only wait and smile but thats human nature i guess) ?
 

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You're away from home? Just say something interesting about your trip. Make it up if you have to. Just something funny, quick, and interesting. And then disappear. Don't stretch it out into some long azz text conversation.

For instance, if you're on a business trip:

"Me and the coworkers just got back from the casino. And of course, I won. Always bet on black, baby."

Just something quick that will encourage a smile, and make you seem like you're doing interesting things. Don't write anything trying to be "sexy" or use some canned comedic material. It just sounds lame and unnatural.
 
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