"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What Men and Women Look For, according to my biology professor.

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What Women Want in a Man

#1: Socual status
#2: Intelligence (Social intelligence)
#3: Humor (Interpreted as less intelligent and trustworthy but more socially savvy and empathic)
#4: Trustworthy emotional stability (sense of rhythm, use of voice(according to the professor you can tell a lot about a person's emotional stability just from their tone of voice))
#5: Athletically Built. Length correlates with firtility. Men with girlfriends are an inch taller than single men on average.
#6: Love, affection, willingness to invest
#7: Good Health (Symmetry face and body).

Sexual Selection = advertising good genes.

What Men Look For in Women

#1: Youth. Fertility, health, energy for care of elders
#2: Beauty, advertisement of good genes.(Babies of 3 months already react to facial symmetry)


So to summarize:

Men: Beauty is quick indicator for good genes.
Women: 'Combination-strategy': monogamous, but when in doubt about their partner's genes, they will get inseminated by another man (spreading risks).
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Men want good genes while women want good genes + resources and safety.

Also everyone reading this should keep in mind this is all "best case scenerio". Which means... what men and women want in an ideal world. The vast majority of the population won't measure up to these traits.

Most people will end up settling for whoever has their most important trait while letting other shortcomings slide.

For instance.. a woman might trade emotional stability for good genes (wife beater anyone?) or a man might trait youth for beauty (30+ women in the first stages of letting themselves go OR women with bastard kids).

This is why former c0ck carouselers will usually end up with beta fag husbands. Trade offs. :crackup:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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