"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
What mature men must be aware of
- Thread starter Burroughs
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Burroughs,
I have to admit that you have some surprisingly good and insightful posts that have really made me stop and rethink things.
But, when I see this video, all I see is a guy who doesn't hesitate to use violence. Regardless of whether a woman is involved, society as whole punishes individuals who don't hesitate to use violence. If this man was hitting another man in the workplace for example, others would intervene, the guy would be out of a job, and he would be pretty much unemployable. I don't how this video is specific to men being white knights, when a similar situation could occur without a woman being involved. Society doesn't like bullies. Maybe I've been watching too much Captain America lately, but that's how I see it.
Next thing you know, you'll be telling us how the Avengers and especially Captain America are messed up because they are rewarded by women for being disposable men.
I have to admit that you have some surprisingly good and insightful posts that have really made me stop and rethink things.
But, when I see this video, all I see is a guy who doesn't hesitate to use violence. Regardless of whether a woman is involved, society as whole punishes individuals who don't hesitate to use violence. If this man was hitting another man in the workplace for example, others would intervene, the guy would be out of a job, and he would be pretty much unemployable. I don't how this video is specific to men being white knights, when a similar situation could occur without a woman being involved. Society doesn't like bullies. Maybe I've been watching too much Captain America lately, but that's how I see it.
Next thing you know, you'll be telling us how the Avengers and especially Captain America are messed up because they are rewarded by women for being disposable men.
Sik
Don Juan
I watched the video. Not sure what to make of it as it does not show who instigated the fight.
That being said, yes, there were a few White Knights. Mostly, it seems like there were a lot of drunk guys looking for an excuse to beat on someone. That poor bastard was really in the wrong place to do what he did. At least wait in the parking lot where there's less or no witnesses.
That being said, yes, there were a few White Knights. Mostly, it seems like there were a lot of drunk guys looking for an excuse to beat on someone. That poor bastard was really in the wrong place to do what he did. At least wait in the parking lot where there's less or no witnesses.
As with every punishment for striking a woman, there's never a word about what led up to it. The man's always portrayed as a bestial, violent, borderline retard who cannot control himself under even the most pleasant conditions. Seems to me these two were arguing about a room key or the car keys, with some dirty laundry being aired to the poolgoers.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Don't forget "How can she slap!!!"
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XiwXb26mloQ
bunch of white knights trying to get their shots in order to impress the b1tch, even though the fight ended as soon as the man showed her what happens when you decide to enter his domain of being physical.
If there was no mob around this is how it would have ended:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Mkr3f_Hc_cI
Woman hits man, man hits back, woman cries, man got his point across and is satisfied with the result. END OF STORY.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XiwXb26mloQ
bunch of white knights trying to get their shots in order to impress the b1tch, even though the fight ended as soon as the man showed her what happens when you decide to enter his domain of being physical.
If there was no mob around this is how it would have ended:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Mkr3f_Hc_cI
Woman hits man, man hits back, woman cries, man got his point across and is satisfied with the result. END OF STORY.
georgejnes
New Member
Pure hypocrisy is seen here, no doubt...
plate's_empty
Senior Don Juan
Couldn't see the video but this thread reminds me of the beginning scene of the Movie "The Way Of The Gun". The movie was okay but that beginning scene mind ****ed half the people that saw it. They didn't know how to feel or what to think but they were intrigued and were surprised they enjoyed it.