"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
What mature men must be aware of
- Thread starter Burroughs
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Burroughs,
I have to admit that you have some surprisingly good and insightful posts that have really made me stop and rethink things.
But, when I see this video, all I see is a guy who doesn't hesitate to use violence. Regardless of whether a woman is involved, society as whole punishes individuals who don't hesitate to use violence. If this man was hitting another man in the workplace for example, others would intervene, the guy would be out of a job, and he would be pretty much unemployable. I don't how this video is specific to men being white knights, when a similar situation could occur without a woman being involved. Society doesn't like bullies. Maybe I've been watching too much Captain America lately, but that's how I see it.
Next thing you know, you'll be telling us how the Avengers and especially Captain America are messed up because they are rewarded by women for being disposable men.
I have to admit that you have some surprisingly good and insightful posts that have really made me stop and rethink things.
But, when I see this video, all I see is a guy who doesn't hesitate to use violence. Regardless of whether a woman is involved, society as whole punishes individuals who don't hesitate to use violence. If this man was hitting another man in the workplace for example, others would intervene, the guy would be out of a job, and he would be pretty much unemployable. I don't how this video is specific to men being white knights, when a similar situation could occur without a woman being involved. Society doesn't like bullies. Maybe I've been watching too much Captain America lately, but that's how I see it.
Next thing you know, you'll be telling us how the Avengers and especially Captain America are messed up because they are rewarded by women for being disposable men.
Sik
Don Juan
I watched the video. Not sure what to make of it as it does not show who instigated the fight.
That being said, yes, there were a few White Knights. Mostly, it seems like there were a lot of drunk guys looking for an excuse to beat on someone. That poor bastard was really in the wrong place to do what he did. At least wait in the parking lot where there's less or no witnesses.
That being said, yes, there were a few White Knights. Mostly, it seems like there were a lot of drunk guys looking for an excuse to beat on someone. That poor bastard was really in the wrong place to do what he did. At least wait in the parking lot where there's less or no witnesses.
As with every punishment for striking a woman, there's never a word about what led up to it. The man's always portrayed as a bestial, violent, borderline retard who cannot control himself under even the most pleasant conditions. Seems to me these two were arguing about a room key or the car keys, with some dirty laundry being aired to the poolgoers.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Don't forget "How can she slap!!!"
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XiwXb26mloQ
bunch of white knights trying to get their shots in order to impress the b1tch, even though the fight ended as soon as the man showed her what happens when you decide to enter his domain of being physical.
If there was no mob around this is how it would have ended:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Mkr3f_Hc_cI
Woman hits man, man hits back, woman cries, man got his point across and is satisfied with the result. END OF STORY.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XiwXb26mloQ
bunch of white knights trying to get their shots in order to impress the b1tch, even though the fight ended as soon as the man showed her what happens when you decide to enter his domain of being physical.
If there was no mob around this is how it would have ended:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Mkr3f_Hc_cI
Woman hits man, man hits back, woman cries, man got his point across and is satisfied with the result. END OF STORY.
georgejnes
New Member
Pure hypocrisy is seen here, no doubt...
plate's_empty
Senior Don Juan
Couldn't see the video but this thread reminds me of the beginning scene of the Movie "The Way Of The Gun". The movie was okay but that beginning scene mind ****ed half the people that saw it. They didn't know how to feel or what to think but they were intrigued and were surprised they enjoyed it.