"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What makes you keep sleeping with her?

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marshman

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Say you're not tied down to any one girl inparticular. Just playing the field, sewing your wild oats, having friends with benefits, or maybe just casually seeing/sleeping with one girl.

What makes you want to keep sleeping with one girl in particular, even if you don't consider her LTR material?

Is she a great lay?
You care about her but won't admit to your ONEITIS?
You're not getting sex anywhere else?

For me, it's usually just that I was initially attracted to her and even though I don't want a relationship with her I end up developing feelings for her. This is when I distance myself to avoid emotional attachment, and try to put it in my mind that she's just great sex. It's tough though.

Because generally, if she's nothing special...even if the sex is decent...I'll sleep with her once or twice than NEXT.

What about you guys?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ER!C L!VE

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WTF do you care why Ifvck a bytch??

unless.....you're a bytch posing as a guy.

Jeezus, I just looked at your past posts and they're all about the same kind of shyt a woman would worry about.

Talking a bout 'feelings' and shyt.

Fvck guys!!! This place is being over run with bytches posing as guys asking stupid bytch questions.

fvck!
 
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Dude, chill. I'm no slut posing as a guy.

I'm just a loser trying to figure out why I can't shake getting emotionally involved with the girls I sleep with, that's all. All you other guys here make it sound so easy. Going out and laying whoever without developing feelings...while I somehow always do and end up getting burned.

I want to have emotionaess sex goddamnit.
 
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This whole emotionless thing is a bit fake. you try to minimize your emotions so that you don't make mistakes, but no one, even these so-called DJs that lie about it, goes in without any feeling.

I even had a girl I wasn't attracted to physically, but I still found myself thinking through how I'd let her down so that she wouldn't want revenge.
 
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