"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What makes people look back into your eyes?

Jack Wealthy

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Eye contact is easier said than done I find. I feel very comfortable with it, but most people don't seem to and I'm lucky to get fleeting glances most days, unless I avoid their eyes then they might look at me. So here's a list I have of things that procure potent physics (also chemistry, I guess it's a bit of both... really it's just biology but damn dat alliteration)

Add to the list:

-A smirk that grows when you see peoples faces. This would be the single biggest one I find. If you look at someones face then smile, it works about 100 times better than walking around with a big silly grin- unless you're actually in that mood. It shows you're warming to the person or at the very least, you're smiling for them, not at everyone.
-Talking on the phone. I read a study once that says people seen talking on the phone are viewed as more relatable and friendly. I find it works.
-Having a guitar on your back. This is a ****ing bomb. I went busking the other day, got hit on by more girls than dollars I made. I approached two as well and they were more into than normal, considering I was just being dull.
-Having a girl on your arm. This works pretty well, a lot more girls will check you out. Some will even initiate, they see you as more approachable. The only problem is the occasional question as to whether she's your girlfriend- ok, that question every single freaking time- but you get used to it and start to come up with funny responses.
-Walking a dog. I have a dog that I've trained to go up to girls, it's a good excuse to talk to them. He also sniffs at their cooch if they're ovulating but I didn't teach him to do that. Funny story, once I had a girl over and I finished up inside her deep. So she went to the toilet to sort that out in just a mini skirt, so the dog tried to get up inside her and eat me out. Kinda gross actually.
-Peacocking. Yo, it works. Just be prepared for the consequences and remember, do it rarely.
-Being loud. People pay more attention to you=more eye contact. x10 multiplier if you're funny and the centre of attention.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Watawata

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The great jack wealthy! Keep this posts coming I like your advice a lot.

Also I pmed you but your inbox is full.
 

Darth_Qurashi

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I like this list a lot.

The thing about like playing music, talking on your cellphone or even just being loud in general is that you're putting yourself out there and making yourself vulnerable.

I find that whenever I speak freely and sometimes I even purposely make lame jokes and then apologize people start feeling less intimidated. Then you act normal again and it's like they're seeing your growth and it blows their mind.

Lol i don't even know if I'm talking about the same thing anymore, but just wanted to share.
 
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