"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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What makes people look back into your eyes?

Jack Wealthy

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Eye contact is easier said than done I find. I feel very comfortable with it, but most people don't seem to and I'm lucky to get fleeting glances most days, unless I avoid their eyes then they might look at me. So here's a list I have of things that procure potent physics (also chemistry, I guess it's a bit of both... really it's just biology but damn dat alliteration)

Add to the list:

-A smirk that grows when you see peoples faces. This would be the single biggest one I find. If you look at someones face then smile, it works about 100 times better than walking around with a big silly grin- unless you're actually in that mood. It shows you're warming to the person or at the very least, you're smiling for them, not at everyone.
-Talking on the phone. I read a study once that says people seen talking on the phone are viewed as more relatable and friendly. I find it works.
-Having a guitar on your back. This is a ****ing bomb. I went busking the other day, got hit on by more girls than dollars I made. I approached two as well and they were more into than normal, considering I was just being dull.
-Having a girl on your arm. This works pretty well, a lot more girls will check you out. Some will even initiate, they see you as more approachable. The only problem is the occasional question as to whether she's your girlfriend- ok, that question every single freaking time- but you get used to it and start to come up with funny responses.
-Walking a dog. I have a dog that I've trained to go up to girls, it's a good excuse to talk to them. He also sniffs at their cooch if they're ovulating but I didn't teach him to do that. Funny story, once I had a girl over and I finished up inside her deep. So she went to the toilet to sort that out in just a mini skirt, so the dog tried to get up inside her and eat me out. Kinda gross actually.
-Peacocking. Yo, it works. Just be prepared for the consequences and remember, do it rarely.
-Being loud. People pay more attention to you=more eye contact. x10 multiplier if you're funny and the centre of attention.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Watawata

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The great jack wealthy! Keep this posts coming I like your advice a lot.

Also I pmed you but your inbox is full.
 

Darth_Qurashi

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I like this list a lot.

The thing about like playing music, talking on your cellphone or even just being loud in general is that you're putting yourself out there and making yourself vulnerable.

I find that whenever I speak freely and sometimes I even purposely make lame jokes and then apologize people start feeling less intimidated. Then you act normal again and it's like they're seeing your growth and it blows their mind.

Lol i don't even know if I'm talking about the same thing anymore, but just wanted to share.
 
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