BraddH
Master Don Juan
For some reason looks are very superficial to me and it can be faked so easily anyway.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Why are you handling them a punishment?Sexy workout chicks with abs...gotta make sure they can handle the punishment I'm going to dish out
And what makes those fake things hot?when she is bent over showing me the goods with big fake boobies hanging off the sides!
But to make a good looking girl hot, throw some fake boobs on her, hair extensions, and open toe heels.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
They accentuate what is already there and make them stand out from a crowd. Much in the same way nice fitting clothes do for someone with a good body.And what makes those fake things hot?
agreed , the last girl I was seeing had a strange waddle I didn't like from the minute I met herA sexy walk along with nice legs can give me instant wood. .
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Just curious. Out of anyone; actress/singer/North American/Asian/European. Can you name 4-5 celebrities you find attractive?All I need is a pretty face along with nice hips, legs and ass.
A sexy walk along with nice legs can give me instant wood. I'm really big on attractive faces too. Can't stand a busted ugly face.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Going on looks alone:Just curious. Out of anyone; actress/singer/North American/Asian/European. Can you name 4-5 celebrities you find attractive?
I can live without the belly...Milena Velba... nuff said.
I like a curvy woman with perfect feet.
Feet: Nails done. Toes within the borders of her shoes. Monthly pedicures at least. No monkey feet.
Curvy: I love huge tits and a belly. I observe what I call the "tit to gut" ratio. I'm an 80/20 man myself.. lol