What made you MGTOW?

[Vanderdonck]

Homeboy had to pay 20 K (!!!) to get his "wife"( forced marriage) over to Europe. Other homeboy needs to pay his Pina gf hundreds per month because..yeah, he has more buying power with his Euro. Let alone getting her over here..

Having a kid cost you up to millions in 18 + years.

Lawsuits, the complete marriage, the fall out. Dating regularly costs you at least 50 bucks just to sit across a woman.

And finally, IF you position yourself to make money 24 hours per day , a woman will DISTRACT you willingly, not caring about your bag bit rather about HER "feewings" and DEMAND you give up money making opportunities to spend time with her. ( trust me I know)

Modern dating very soon becomes like Klarna: buy now pay later with interest. We should at very least analyse the truth and separate feelings from said truth so we can make an honest judgement.

I'm in a long term serious thing, but I'm lucky not to deal with any of that sh*t, thank god. No distractions, no guilt, no time sucks. Just balance and fun. (Oh, no kids.)

 

[Manure Spherian]

No. Sounds like you did monk mode, not MGTOW. I misunderstood.

Is there a difference?

 

[Vanderdonck]

Is there a difference?

I don't even know anymore. Well, I thought Monk Mode was just taking some time off/going dark to work on stuff. And I thought MGTOW was swearing off women and just living life on your own terms. It's right there in the acronym, going their own way, and it's usually incels doing it. So maybe I'm wrong or maybe different people define it differently.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

I listened to the song "You can go your own waaaaayyyy...go your own waaaaayyyy!"

By Fleetwood Mac.

Loving you
Isn't the right thing to do
How can I ever change things
That I feel?

… If I could
Baby, I'd give you my world
How can I
When you won't take it from me?

… You can go your own way
Go your own way
You can call it
Another lonely day
You can go your own way
Go your own way

… Tell me why
Everything turned around
Packing up
Shacking up is all you want to do

 

[gwoppin]

Likely due to a poor screening process. 90% of the time it's due to poor screening. Men should be holding themselves accountable for this and stop blaming others.

The uncomfortable truth nobody wants to acknowledge.

where

Likely due to a poor screening process. 90% of the time it's due to poor screening. Men should be holding themselves accountable for this and stop blaming others.

The uncomfortable truth nobody wants to acknowledge.

This is the type of thin

I have a MGTOW friend. He got divorce r@ped.

how old were you when this happened to him, and did you have your own experiences with women before this?

 

[Hamurabimbi]

where

This is the type of thin

how old were you when this happened to him, and did you have your own experiences with women before this?

Middle aged. (Fairly recent occurance). Just to clarify: He's the MGTOW. Not me.