"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

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What locations do you go sarging?

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SandHawk

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I'm currently doing a little bootcamp myself because I'm f'ing depressed. I've screwed up with a few things in my life that's getting the better part of me and slung me directly into a massive depression.

While I can go sit at home and weep about it, I need to get some distraction. I'd like to moderate how often I feel crap because sitting in this crap doesn't solve anything.

As I'm Dutch, we don't really have the concept of a mall. We have shopping areas, but these are mostly long streets, with people walking slowly through it staring at the windows. I tried sarging there this weekend, but getting eye contact is really difficult on the streets I've noticed, and people aren't really up for a chat. I tried a few shops which got me a bit more luck.

However, what locations do you sarge? I'm considering coffee shops, a giant electronic store(sort of like a WalMart, but with stuff ranging from extensions cords to plasma TVs, computers, washing machines) and Ikea. Gonna try Ikea in the morning and see if I have luck there. Just try to open a few chicks and ask them what they're looking for(Any better openers?).

I never had the gut to do cold approaches, and it's time I finally conquer this little thing, because it will get me a lot more girls.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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HeyPachuco!

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I've just got back from the Netherlands. Don't you have a massive mall in Rotterdam Centrum mate? Thats like one of the biggest malls I've ever seen in Europe. I think it's called the Lijnbaan or the shopping mall itself is called the Koopgoot. I've mentioned in you're threads before (Wingman Forum) about Holland and how Dutch people are reserved. It's a shame because you have some of the hottest mixed women on the planet. You guys remind me of the French in Montreal. Anyway, I found it extremely hard to get chatting with girls in Holland. As I don't speak a tip of Dutch. Not only that, but they weren't really party girls either or up for anytime of conversation.
 
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If you ever want to run into people who are down for a chat, coffee shops are great. I've been to Amsterdam a few times and every time I was there, I had incredibly interesting conversations in the coffee shops. Stoned people love to discuss stuff. Besides, those stoner chicks put out easy too.
 
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